To Dangle or not to Dangle...?

[Hockeyfeet]

Thats just it. The question was, IF you have a mans attention, do you continue to do it? If YOU don't, then you don't. That's all. Maybe some do. In fact, some stated that they indeed do. You then decided to give your commentary on how everyone is so obsessed with the association between the two. Who are YOU to diagnose such a situation? You have NO IDEA if she could/would or possibly does enjoy our fetish, or simply enjoys being watched... but you felt it necessary to stand up and proclaim that everyone is wrong and you are right. Listen, I don't give a rats ass what color your feather is, it doesn't make you an authority on sh*t around here. Now do us a favor, quit being a hater and go keep busy elsewhere. And for the record...I wear flip flops all the time and I NEVER dangle, just because it's fun, r for whatever reason....but I must be wrong again. And now you're speaking for every woman who has ever gotten a pedicure. Ugh....do you ever stop?

Hey, you were the one asking for our thoughts...it's not my problem if you don't like mine! 🙂 Believe me, just because a woman dangles, she is not "one of us". Just about everybody does it when they wear flip flops, just because it's fun. You try to move them around without dropping them. That's it. No foot fetish relation here. It's the same thing with pedicures - women do not get pedicures for the foot fetishists out there.

 

[rhiannon]

I am just speaking for the realistic majority. But sorry if I destroyed a your fantasyland.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

In fact, some stated that they indeed do.

Hmm so let's see your were originally asking if any of the females on here dangled, do they intentionally mean to do it, and if they saw a man or men looking would they stop or keep going? Last I saw on this thread only two females really responded and only one said she would actually tease. It has mostly been males saying they have seen it.

I mean sure I dangle my shoes and if I notice man or men looking I tease them, but I am a female on fetish sites who also happens to have a foot fetish. I by no means represent your average vanilla female.

 

[rhiannon]

I dangle my shoes if I am bored. And honestly, never have I seen a man look at that. They are way too busy looking at my boobs!

 

[Jagermeistered]

I dangle my shoes if I am bored. And honestly, never have I seen a man look at that. They are way too busy looking at my boobs!

Are you bouncing in your chair, or the cleavage - have to love the cleavage. You must be an attention *****, coercing eyes toward that asset. Just kidding... 🙂

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I dangle my shoes if I am bored. And honestly, never have I seen a man look at that. They are way too busy looking at my boobs!

With me it tends to be my bum. I've notice a lot more men stare at it then my feet.

 

[rhiannon]

Are you bouncing in your chair, or the cleavage

Not even necessarily cleavage...they are big enough to be noticed without me wearing one. 🙂

With me it tends to be my bum. I've notice a lot more men stare at it then my feet.

Couldn't tell. Men who look at my butt are behind me. 😀

 

[Hockeyfeet]

You really didnt destroy anything for me. You're clearly not one I would associate with....but I'll take my "fantasy land" over your "skepticism world" any day.

I am just speaking for the realistic majority. But sorry if I destroyed a your fantasyland.

 

[Hockeyfeet]

That's just it....how can you ever know if someone is your average vanilla female. At last check, its not tattooed on their forehead. So the whole point was....if I see a woman doing something that others in our fetish world HAVE said that they do (and I'm not referring to just my post)....one has to wonder if they share the same fetish. Maybe...maybe not. But in typical TMF fashion, there are those who believe they created the fetish and are "all-knowing" and feel like they have to belittle those who think otherwise. I laugh them off. But thanks anyway.


I mean sure I dangle my shoes and if I notice man or men looking I tease them, but I am a female on fetish sites who also happens to have a foot fetish. I by no means represent your average vanilla female.[/QUOTE]

 

[rhiannon]

That's just it....how can you ever know if someone is your average vanilla female.

I tend to apply Ockham's Razor here. 🙂 Plus, I am a woman and I know a lot of women, and we talk about that kind of stuff. The majority of women does not exist to make a show for men.

 

[Jagermeistered]

You really didnt destroy anything for me. You're clearly not one I would associate with....but I'll take my "fantasy land" over your "skepticism world" any day.

What? Really? You are displacing - civility with obsession.

 

[YouNeverKnow175]

Despite the bickering here, great topic 🙂

I too have grappled with this question - how intentional it is when a woman does something like that. I guess my thoughts are:

Women clearly play with their shoes and slip them on and off a LOT. I've been observing this and enthralled by it since I was a kid. Almost all of the time, it's not to put on a show, and they don't even know someone's watching.

It DEFINITELY becomes a very interesting question once a woman becomes aware someone is watching. Then the game changes. If she keeps doing it, it certainly does start to feel like a tease...

I actually experience this with photos on facebook too. When girls post pictures of their feet, it feels like they are intentionally doing it to drive me nuts. When I snap back to reality, I know they're not....BUT, for the few (ex-gfs, friends etc) who happen to know about my foot fetish, I do wonder sometimes. A while ago, a friend who has shown off her feet a fair amount on facebook started including pictures of her red painted toes in photos of things she was cooking. I made a comment to her about it, and within a few weeks, more photos that included her feet. So often I think when there are girls who simply think their feet are pretty OR may even have a bit of a foot thing themselves and really like to show their feet off, enjoy doing so even more when they are aware that a guy (or woman for that matter) likes it.

 

[paracarl44]

Sometimes it could be a nervous habit, but a woman looking around to see who is watching the dangling is teasing.

 

[Mane'o]

ROFLOL I've never seen so much ado about nothing. This is like an ink blot test. What people read into dangling tells more about the observer than the dangler. rhiannon is right about this. Scores of women dangle for all sorts of reasons and the minute few- emphasize minute - who may - emphasize may - do it to tease barely register as significant in the entire population of danglers. However to people with foot fetishes dangling carries all sorts of wonderful implications and assumptions about the meaning behind the dangle. and I'm one who loves the bare ticklish female foot and love a good dangle but I also accept that 99.999 % of the time a dangle is not meant for me or any of the other foot fanatics out there. This is one of those "get a life" moments. Enjoy the fantasies but it has nothing to do with real life. You guys remind me of Howard on Big Bang who acts as if every pretty thing in a skirt is the future Mrs Wolowitz.

 

[Hockeyfeet]

No no.....you cant have say that.....or else you are wrong. The official Lord of the TMF has spoken and any idea other than her own is forbidden. (BTW, that is total sarcasm. She's an idiot. Thanks for the post)

Despite the bickering here, great topic 🙂

I too have grappled with this question - how intentional it is when a woman does something like that. I guess my thoughts are:

Women clearly play with their shoes and slip them on and off a LOT. I've been observing this and enthralled by it since I was a kid. Almost all of the time, it's not to put on a show, and they don't even know someone's watching.

It DEFINITELY becomes a very interesting question once a woman becomes aware someone is watching. Then the game changes. If she keeps doing it, it certainly does start to feel like a tease...

I actually experience this with photos on facebook too. When girls post pictures of their feet, it feels like they are intentionally doing it to drive me nuts. When I snap back to reality, I know they're not....BUT, for the few (ex-gfs, friends etc) who happen to know about my foot fetish, I do wonder sometimes. A while ago, a friend who has shown off her feet a fair amount on facebook started including pictures of her red painted toes in photos of things she was cooking. I made a comment to her about it, and within a few weeks, more photos that included her feet. So often I think when there are girls who simply think their feet are pretty OR may even have a bit of a foot thing themselves and really like to show their feet off, enjoy doing so even more when they are aware that a guy (or woman for that matter) likes it.

 

[Jagermeistered]

No no.....you cant have say that.....or else you are wrong. The official Lord of the TMF has spoken and any idea other than her own is forbidden. (BTW, that is total sarcasm. She's an idiot. Thanks for the post)

Goof 😛

 

[rhiannon]

She's an idiot.

No need to get personal, dude. I'm keeping my thoughts about what I think you are to myself too. 🙂

 

[foot fun]

My friend has the most amazing strong shapely legs and sexy little feet. She absolutely dangles to tease foot guys, and she says there are tons of them out there. She tells me dangling is like semi undressing to a foot guy. it is so much more of an intense tease than most realize. She will tease a guy for a while and then when she has them hooked she will look them directly in the eye to see their reaction and depending on it she will continue or bring the show to a stop.

 

[Jagermeistered]

My friend has the most amazing strong shapely legs and sexy little feet. She absolutely dangles to tease foot guys, and she says there are tons of them out there. She tells me dangling is like semi undressing to a foot guy. it is so much more of an intense tease than most realize. She will tease a guy for a while and then when she has them hooked she will look them directly in the eye to see their reaction and depending on it she will continue or bring the show to a stop.

She is a psychologist(officially or non-officially)... She understands the world of foot fetishism. You are either(obsessive or playmate!)

She prefers playmate!

 

[Hockeyfeet]

I stand by my statement. Have a wonderful and blessed day! 😀

No need to get personal, dude. I'm keeping my thoughts about what I think you are to myself too. 🙂