Toe sucking, licking etc..

[thenewguy12]

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[-Hari-]

"Operant Conditioning", thats what you want, A good method is to do the less nice thing whilst doing a VERY nice thing, and let her make the link slowely in her head, but do it gently. For example, during sex, either intercourse or if its easier just use your hand (might be easier to reach lol) at first, sex and foot massage, do that for a while, then sex and foot massage with a foot kiss mixed in somewhere, then a lick here and there and so on but always prioritising the sex factor. Remember, do it gently and prioritise the good thing, or else its not impossible that it might work backwards and sex will remind her of you trying to do creepy things to her feet 😛

Like most things this wont ALLways work but with some people its shockingly easy to do, My girlfriend gets turned on when she hears certain songs by nine inch nails cause I usually have that playing during sexy time, before she met me she wasnt really even into nine inch nails let alone turned on by it 😛

 

[Nextrend2011]

I have to agree with Haribish! on this one. With these sorts of situations, you can't just DIVE in and just suck / lick her feet and expect her to eventually enjoy it. I'm not saying that that is going to be your ultimate method of attack, but just in case! I had an ex girlfriend that used to HATE her feet being touched, but most of it was a bad connection with a past experience. Slowly I opened her up to the idea of them being touched by inadvertently letting my hand touch them from time to time during a really pleasing moment, such as cuddling or sitting on a bed next to her, etc. Then I eventually got her used to it and started giving her massages that eventually she really enjoyed with time. Start off slow, promise her it will be relaxing and that it will feel good. Same as Haribish! said, maybe sneak a quick foot kiss here and there, but continue with the foot massage so she knows it's about making her feel good, not you creepin' on the feet! I did this over time with the ex and eventually I could kiss her toes or sneak a lick in here and there and she would be smiling just the same. It's all about conditioning and easing her in man 🙂

 

[thenewguy12]

Thanks guys I really appreciate the advice and I'll have to give those Ideas a try.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

My suggestion would be to not announce it beforehand. Why would you? IMO it's strange. It's akin to texting someone, "Today at 4:15 when you get home I'm going to have buttsex with you". But whatev. Turn it into a part of foreplay and not a joke. Re-introduce it to her as a more intimate act in the bedroom without a verbal warning. I assume you're having sex with this girl and anything a partner has in their arsenal that turns the other on is usually something to be proud of and happy.

Like Hari suggested, mix it up, then go to her feet. If she protests at all simply smile confidently and reply, "Your feet turn me on." without making it a joke. Make it VERY clear that it's a part of HER that turns you on and don't be general about it like, "I have a foot fetish." Use the word, "Your". Express to her with those few words that she is in possession of a trigger that gets you going. Once she realizes she can turn you on in a unique way that's specific to her, she most likely will enjoy it more and ease up as you've paid her compliment.

If she REALLY isn't into it then of course you'll have to respect that. 🙂

Hari - NIN during sex is fucking mind blowing.

 

[-Hari-]

Hari - NIN during sex is fucking mind blowing.

yeh man, its got to the point where its almost instant, we were driving back from devon and kittys hand was on my leg, NIN came on and she instantly started squeezing my leg sensually and looking at me all bitey lipped 😀

 

[Marquis De Sade]

yeh man, its got to the point where its almost instant, we were driving back from devon and kittys hand was on my leg, NIN came on and she instantly started squeezing my leg sensually and looking at me all bitey lipped 😀

Heh. Yup. In certain songs Trent has perfectly captured the sounds of sex, seduction and all that is hot in the form of music. It's what I write to and what I have sex to. And I know what you mean about instant. It's gotten to the point where I'd ask you what tracks you guys listen to, but there's something about that music that would turn that innocent question into a something MUCH more personal like what positions u guys haz sexytimes to lololol?

So I won't. 😛

Apologies for the the tread derailment. 😀