Told someone about fetish

[ialwayseatsalmo]

I told someone about my fetish tonight. I built it up like it was a huge deal, and she said it wasnt that weird. She said she would maybe trust a boyfriend to tie her up and tickle her, but maybe not just a friend. Maybe now that she knows about my fetish she'll think about it, because i know she likes me.

 

[TicklesFemales]

Good Luck buddy let us know if you get to tie her up and tickle her. She sounds as though she might be ticklish since she said she might let a boyfriend tie her up and tickle her, but did not know if she would let a friend do it.....LOL

 

[CD216]

Welp, you are one ballsy fella amigo. I tend to keep this to myself for the most part, despite me being fairly open about a lot of things, but I've told a few people in my time. I hope it works out for ya, so best of luck.

 

[ialwayseatsalmo]

Haha thanks for the replies. I talked to her again tonight, to see what her thoughts were. and shes like "wellll im kinda curious about it now.. this doesnt mean i am going to do it, but i am thinking about it." we'll just have to hang out a couple times and build trust.

 

[waitin2btkled]

Give it time. Offer her massages here and there and slip in a few tickles here and there. I'm sure it feels great to get it off your chest.

I told a friend of mine recently and she knows i'm into this fetish but i never used the word FETISH due to it's negative connotation. She loves foot massages and knows me very well. She told me the same thing that she never trusted anyone enough to play like that. She has known me for years and didn't say she wouldn't play with me. I am slowly bringing her into it.

In a week or 2, I am taking her out to dinner and going back to her place for a movie. I will give her a full body massage starting with her feet and slip in a few tickles here and there.

Don't overwhelm her all at once as this is new to her and slowly bringing her into it is the best way i think unless they are really kinky.

Good luck

 

[ialwayseatsalmo]

update: she says it actually sounds like fun, she now needs to hang out with me.

 

[Angel77]

Best of luck to you!

 

[WorkInProgress]

Some will be cool with it, others not. One female friend I told about it, she was fine with being told about it; then when I alluded to the possibility of tickling her, she said, "Oh, you're not tickling me; I don't share your fetish; for me it's just horrible torture; I grew up with three older brothers, I got tickled enough." But even that is a much more favorable reaction than I got from one or two others, who weren't cool with being told about it at all. Case by case is the rule for whom to tell and whom not.

 

[ialwayseatsalmo]

ok. so weve talked more and more about the tickling. ive given her a couple foot rubs (i have a foot fetish that she knows about, but she thinks thats cool, bc she gets foot rubs haha) and so were beginning to become pretty good friends. last night she said she wants to be "eased" into it. like no tied up tickling, just some playful tickling first, is there anyway i can "restrain" her without tieing her up. or should i just tickle fight her (im not ticklish)

 

[fygar]

I told someone about my fetish tonight. I built it up like it was a huge deal, and she said it wasnt that weird. She said she would maybe trust a boyfriend to tie her up and tickle her, but maybe not just a friend. Maybe now that she knows about my fetish she'll think about it, because i know she likes me.

UH-OH. Well, what's done is done. Just be careful and prepare yourself just in case she does betray your secret to someone else.

Hopefully that wont happen but, you really, really have too be careful telling people personal things about you. Especially when those things are considered by society to be unusual.

A lot of us keep a lid on it for a reason and while it's understandable that you want to be able to tell someone that you can confide in about it and have that wonderful feeling of acceptance and relief, you still have to be cautious because some people will act like they understand then, when they're away they may get to thinking about it and start to feel uneasy and start second guessing the whole thing and if that happens, she's likely to consult a friend or family member for advice and that is usually where the avalanche that you aren't even aware of is on it's way to mow you down.

Sorry if that's scary but, it does happen to some people so just keep your guard up and tread lightly.

 

[ialwayseatsalmo]

no, shes interested in it and wants to try it. i dont think she'd tell anyone. thats not the problem at hand.

 

[fygar]

no, shes interested in it and wants to try it. i dont think she'd tell anyone. thats not the problem at hand.

Maybe not right now. Just be careful and don't rush her. Also you don't have to restrain her right away. If you can, let it be a fun little wrestle where you occasionally grab hold of a place and tickle for a few seconds and let go.

If you're too forceful she may get scared.

 

[TropicThunder]

That's awesome. I find I didn't feel so wierd about it after i told someone I trust. I let him tickle me too. =D

 

[Gemini_Tickle]

Maybe she'll be like me and end up LOVING being tied and tickled. I guess my first tickle session was under a different circumstance because it wasn't within the context of a relationship, boyfriend, or anything like that...but still I can say that it was very overwhelming...I have a very laid back and easy going personality and I'm always up for an adventure so I went with it...but depending on your friend's personality the tied aspect could be intimidating or offputting for her...

So I have a few suggestions...one would just be sort of imaginary bondage...you could have her lay down on the bed (or whatever) and tell her to close her eyes and relax. Tell her to let her whole body feel heavy and soft and very relaxed. Then have her imagine that her arms are tied, her legs are tied...however you want...describe the bondage in detail...

You could also sort of sit on her to hold her down. Like if she were to lay on her tummy then you could sit on her thighs and tickle her feet...you could turn and sit on her butt and tickle her sides, and arms and back of her neck...

Also you could let her tie you up and tickle you first!!!! Even if you prefer to be the ler it might help her to build trust.

(Shameless self promotion...show her some of my clips, LOL...although seriously my "Tickle Play" clip is fun and doesn't involve bondage)

Well, hope this helps! And I hope she falls in love with tickling (just like I did!)