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Tomato Dragon

I love places like this where people who dont really know each other can talk *or bicker* with each other without fear of actually being mad or getting someone upset. Anyway, you guys are all crazy, and the world should know... 🙂
 
Not necessarily (not that I'm disagreeing with you, your post is quite accurate and my sentiments are with it). There are sometimes reprocussions. I for example have made some people upset to the point that I've been ignored as an artist by a scant few other artists here who otherwise pay attention and respond to anyone and everyone else and their art. Its like they actually go out of their way to avoid my art when they didn't use to do that before. Its as if their opinion suddenly changed because of things I've said which come and go just as this topic did. That IS a reprocussion of these sorts of situations when they don't go well (though this one is benign and not a good example of that).

So to say or imply that these types of situations are without risk isn't completely true all of the time, I should know as I experience them from time to time, here and there. (Note I'm not saying YOU are saying this, but in thinking about it, that is one way any number of people could take it).

Its not so much being ignored thats a bother, because I know they view my artwork anyways (I've even caught them doing it so that could imply they are either curious as to what I'm doing or actually do enjoy my work but are too proud to say so or give me kudos for a job well done because of said past frictions), its that they would not/will not get over the past or whatever from the past that motivates them to act that way toward me. Its that that is of some concern to me. The idea that someone could potentially be shunned indefinitely for any reason which sounded good at the time. That just makes things awkward in a way and adds to strained relations.

And I've noticed that about the artists here. They all have a really distant relationship and I don't see anyone else other than myself ever coming forward to speak in earnest about our relationships with one another. Not that its necessary, I'm just an open person when I'm in a cliche or group and I like sharing how I feel.

The more outspoken, direct, honest and blunt (people like me) tend to suffer the cold shoulder more than others for various reasons, mostly because some people end up feeling slighted in some way. Thats just part of how it is, and its perfectly acceptable as I and others are able to handle it. If we could not we could not function well online or off. Afterall, art is never really about just one person or a few anyways. Theres always more to it than what some think because art is, inevitably, bigger than any one person or group of people.

So...yes...there are times when there is a danger that people get upset and it causes unspoken friction. Fortunately time is on most of our sides and time supposedly heals all wounds. LOL 😛
 
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Why should he worry? I agree with him too as I would imagine everyone would. Why wouldn't they? What he's saying is very true alot of the time.
 
"Don't worry" is a figure of speech. Not a literal statement.
 
hey... umm... one thing

umm.... im a girl... 🙂 its all good though. I think my pic is still in the members section, I submitted it some time ago, though
 
lol you know i thought you were a girl. but then celtic said "he". i figured a guy wouldn't have said this thread was very cute.
 
coral21 said:
umm.... im a girl... 🙂 its all good though. I think my pic is still in the members section, I submitted it some time ago, though

Opps, my bad. I didn't think to look at your profile just to confirm your gender. And the internet can be so ambiguous that way. You never really know unless someone says or the words they use give some sort of inclination. But then assuming gender based on that is premature. I didn't assume you were a guy, it just came out that way because usually I can tell or its obvious who I'm talking to.

Being that there are men that don't act like men and women who don't act like women, or they do but not all the time, or either of them or both have a strong opposite side as well it makes appraising a situation difficult. Too bad we can't read inflections either. We won't know what tone someone is using, etc. Fortunately we have smilies to help that along. Oh boy if we didn't. LOL

Anyways, yeah.


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And might I add you are an extremely beautiful woman. You must have men asking you out all the time.
 
🙂

That pic isn't really fair, we were all dressed up for the dance, so I look slightly different than that, but thanks for the compliment... lol, I figured what happened though, it's all good 🙂
 
coral21 said:
That pic isn't really fair, we were all dressed up for the dance, so I look slightly different than that, but thanks for the compliment... lol, I figured what happened though, it's all good 🙂

Very pretty eyes :redheart:
 
coral21 said:
That pic isn't really fair, we were all dressed up for the dance, so I look slightly different than that, but thanks for the compliment... lol, I figured what happened though, it's all good 🙂

You're welcome.
 
where can i find your pics coral? i clicked your name at the Members List at the top and couldn't find it. anyone wanna gimme the step by step on this one?
 
ahh thanks. didn't realize it was at a forum. very pretty girl.
 
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