Training for tickle subs/slaves

[dominantler]

Darkhand, I commend You for that ability to teach without charging. I wish I could but in today's economy its tough enough for a poly family of 7 to survive; let alone bring more in and not charge to help take care of the bills, food, etc. for a temporary amount of time. See Im not just teaching a fetish, I could do that in a matter of hours. Im also teaching the proper ways of D/s, which as a Mentor, You know takes quite some time if You are doing it right by teaching the submissive things such as the aspects of trust, truth, honor, loyalty, safety in the lifestyle, protocols, proper manners within the lifestyle, etc etc. And, this is to everyone, believe Me, if I could do this for free Id to it in a heartbeat, but I'm just being realistic here. Things cost money, and bills and food have to be paid and bought.

 

[Mister Scruff]

How do you train someone to tickle someone else? Or to be tickled? How exactly does this work?

Is the "school" idea just an exercise in exploiting people for your own gratification, or is that just me being cynical?

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Darkhand, I commend You for that ability to teach without charging. I wish I could but in today's economy its tough enough for a poly family of 7 to survive; let alone bring more in and not charge to help take care of the bills, food, etc. for a temporary amount of time. See Im not just teaching a fetish, I could do that in a matter of hours. Im also teaching the proper ways of D/s, which as a Mentor, You know takes quite some time if You are doing it right by teaching the submissive things such as the aspects of trust, truth, honor, loyalty, safety in the lifestyle, protocols, proper manners within the lifestyle, etc etc. And, this is to everyone, believe Me, if I could do this for free Id to it in a heartbeat, but I'm just being realistic here. Things cost money, and bills and food have to be paid and bought.

If you're trying to "feed a family of seven", then this path isn't going to be a good one for a steady income. you're just not going to make that much. Period.

 

[rhiannon]

If you're trying to "feed a family of seven", then this path isn't going to be a good one for a steady income. you're just not going to make that much. Period.

Agreed. Too many people 'teach' that stuff for free!

 

[DimpleToes]

Not sure I will go to a school to learn to be a LEE slave.. that comes with trust and getting to know your Ler on a personal level as a friend first as it does in the BDSM life style. You cant just expect to have that kind of relationship with out lots of time invested beforehand.

 

[LeeAllure]

Considering the number of friendly gatherings and munches around the country, if people really were wondering how to do something, they can always do it there. Trust me, most of these folks are just not that shy when it comes to asking for something they want, or telling people when they're doing it wrong, when it's hurting, etc. I'm sure that, as Ann said, there are some who do it wrong, and would refuse to go to a school. Most of the people I know are knowledge sponges, and love to learn new techniques from their friends.

Could you provide that documentation you were talking about, regarding collapsed lungs, etc?

Thanks.

Lee

 

[This!]

Oh and by the way, Hey This. Your right, I cant expect someone to take Me at My word. Nor can I expect someone to believe Me on claims of My laurels

Now you're talking sense there, bro. It takes time for people to get to know you. Trust isn't something that you can pitch on a forum post. After all, we're talking about some pretty personal interaction there, chief.

but..hey here's an idea...(leans in and whispers to This)

I get the imagery you're going for here chief, but the best I can do is to picture you leaning closer to your keyboard and typing more delicately.

Try checking to see if what I say is true.

Sorry chief. You're the one pitching your services to us. It's up to you to present your credentials, not us to go searching for them.

Talk to the Owner of this board He knows Me quite well from IRC and can vouch for My abilities as a Dom

Riiight. Because IRC is such the quintessential proving ground for expertise in tickling and BDSM.

For those of you who don't know, IRC is basically a series of chat rooms. I don't know what abilities our new friend could demonstrate there beyond capitalizing his first person personal pronouns. We've seen how well that's worked for him here.

 

[dominantler]

wow, harsher still. Im obviously amongst a dyed in the wool flamer corp here. so rather than give you egotists and elitists more fuel to feed on, think Im just going to stop posting, you know there was a time when a person was innocent until proven guilty not just assumed as such. witch hunt anyone? thanks for the warm welcome to the forum by nit-picking and dissecting every single thing Ive said. Now I remember why I dont post in forums like this because everytime someone says something, By the goddess its put under a microscope, or ripped to shreds and displayed with cutting remarks and abusive tones so that you can prove just how "cool" you are.
Honor is such a fine quality, and it seems to be a lost art. too bad. and Hey! thanks for the warm welcome...you people really know how to make a person feel at home in your "Exclusive Members only, We arent sure if your the "right kind of person"" neighborhood you got going here.
To those who responded nicely and sincerely..I thank you. To those who followed the afforementioned description..its like Lady Sovereign said...Love Me or hate me..yeah you know the rest of the song.

 

[Angel77]

^ I don't have anything harsh to say but I do wish you the best of luck in what you decide to do 🙂

 

[Strider]

And, this is to everyone, believe Me, if I could do this for free Id to it in a heartbeat, but I'm just being realistic here. Things cost money, and bills and food have to be paid and bought.

I know several people (including My girl) who do slave training. None of them charge for it, and their financial situations vary from comfortable to just barely making rent and having enough left over for groceries.

Either way, sorry if you felt shunned here; but when you drop in with no posting history and ask for money for something most members here can get for free... well, you can maybe expect a few flags to go up.