Turn-Ons For The Female Lees Among Us

[JoePTickle]

I'll be visiting my friend in Chicago next week, and as we've spent more time together our tickling has become more intimate. In tickling sessions I'm all about the other person's enjoyment, so I was wondering if anyone has any personal favorite turn-ons to share from the ladies' perspective?

What do you like to hear?
Where do you like to be tickled (besides the most obvious place, that is 🙂), and how?
Anything else that gets your toes curling and eyes rolling?

She's not really into bondage and I've got a bagful of goodies to keep things exciting, so this is more about the interaction, the way to tickle you up to and beyond that magic moment. 🙂

Who knows, maybe someone will read this and pay it forward to you someday.

 

[voided9]

I'm a switch. My lee side loves to hear teasing, like "Aw, does that tickle?" and "How does that feel?" I love light tickling on the undersides of my arms, very light and slow with the fingertips - I find it very intimate, ticklish, and it's sweet. I love light squeezing on my inner thighs, especially when he has that evil grin on his face! Those are just a few off the top of my head.

 

[JoePTickle]

Thanks Brandi!

I'm a switch. My lee side loves to hear teasing, like "Aw, does that tickle?" and "How does that feel?" I love light tickling on the undersides of my arms, very light and slow with the fingertips - I find it very intimate, ticklish, and it's sweet. I love light squeezing on my inner thighs, especially when he has that evil grin on his face! Those are just a few off the top of my head.

 

[iloveddub]

I am a switch too..sometimes. It's my ears....I love it intensely. Just a whisper, or feather and I'm going wild.

 

[JoePTickle]

I will have to try that! Now that you mention it, that works on me too. Thanks.

I am a switch too..sometimes. It's my ears....I love it intensely. Just a whisper, or feather and I'm going wild.

 

[xX Yuna Xx]

Verbal teasing helps, light teasing is also good but it mostly depends on where and how I'm tickled, and if the ler is good.. maybe. lol 😛

 

[iloveddub]

I will have to try that! Now that you mention it, that works on me too. Thanks.

Considering we're in the same area, I probably should be carefu😛l what I reveal.

 

[tickledorange]

That moment when the bondage part of the scene ends, and I am tied and blindfolded right before play starts. I feel so alone, vulnerable, and helpless.

 

[TiickleNiicole]

One of the biggest turn ons for me is being pinned down and verbally teased and then tickled. Having my clothes stripped once I am bound is another turn on, very sexy!

 

[JoePTickle]

That's true. One PM from you to me in a moment of weakness, and I'll be coming to a hotel room near you. 🙂

Considering we're in the same area, I probably should be carefu😛l what I reveal.

 

[JoePTickle]

Ah, the blindfold... yes. I will be getting one of those. Thanks!

That moment when the bondage part of the scene ends, and I am tied and blindfolded right before play starts. I feel so alone, vulnerable, and helpless.

 

[JoePTickle]

There is lots of pinning and teasing when we visit, the teasing's one of my favorite parts. Now I'm thinking that tickledorange's blindfold idea followed by stripping clothes (at least most of them) may be the way to go... since she is comfortable with me stripping her. Thanks!

One of the biggest turn ons for me is being pinned down and verbally teased and then tickled. Having my clothes stripped once I am bound is another turn on, very sexy!

 

[JoePTickle]

Thanks Yuna. My lees run the gambit... most prefer the light tickling and teasing or a mix, she in particular asks me to be really aggressive with her sometimes. And since I'm here to please...

Verbal teasing helps, light teasing is also good but it mostly depends on where and how I'm tickled, and if the ler is good.. maybe. lol 😛

 

[Sunriseticklee]

It's all about the chemistry and the connection. I am certainly not aroused simply by tickling. But once you establish that connection, something as nice as proximity, making sure your lee is comfortable, not rushing it, finding it what she / he likes, setting clear boundaries... all those things create a mood that can lead to arousal.

Then from there, remember that every lee is different. Human touch is a powerful thing. Don't start with toys or tools. Start with your hands, or fingers stroking, gently testing out the ticklishness. Look your lee in the eyes from time to time. Smile. Tease your lee. Sometimes just those things get me going... well, most of the time. Spots that get to me every time (aside from the obvious) my back, underams - especially near the sides of my breasts, upper thighs, back, hips, lower stomach.... just watch your lee's reactions. Usually that will give you the answers you need.

 

[maniactickler]

One of the biggest turn ons for me is being pinned down and verbally teased and then tickled. Having my clothes stripped once I am bound is another turn on, very sexy!

Is this before or after a ravens loss?

 

[Jelly Bean]

Complete merciless tickling of my my ticklish areas along with verbal teasing. 😉

 

[JoePTickle]

You nailed it. At first we just did tickling (in fact I was all ler). After a couple sessions she started tickling back, and after a couple more she asked about cranking it up a notch, which I gladly obliged. 🙂 We have some well-defined boundaries so that it doesn't slip into anything misleading. We talk about a lot of friendly things but it is at heart purely a tickling relationship. I'm all about win-win... and fortunately it just so happens that at this point it feels like we're both winning in a major way, with a high level of trust. And thanks to you all, she might enjoy a new idea or two this week. Thanks for the comment.

It's all about the chemistry and the connection. I am certainly not aroused simply by tickling. But once you establish that connection, something as nice as proximity, making sure your lee is comfortable, not rushing it, finding it what she / he likes, setting clear boundaries... all those things create a mood that can lead to arousal.

 

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

I love this thread! Who would like to do the honor of creating:
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