VLAD, what should i do here? haha i think you can help me out

[mjmw33]

alright well this whole tickling/foot fetish thing has really been starting to become a concern for me. I have found an amazing g/f but to be totally honest, our sexual relations mostly on my part isnt there because of this stuff. The like only real way i could get totally turned on is by tickling or feet. And i mean yea its fun in all but for this to be runing my sex life and stuff is a HUGE HUGE concern for me. This probably is happening to not only me, and other guys as well, and if it does speakk up about it. Every day now i try and think of a way to try and get rid of it or just fix it. You know what i mean, i what to be turned on by the way she looks, and her animate parts about her like ass and boobs and stuff. It seems kinda silly you konw that its gotta happen like this and i kinda dont like it anymore. I mean ive been trying mentally to help it out, and it seems as though my drive towards it is kinda lessening but i dont know, and still aint gettin the feelings i want towards her nicer attributes like her body and her boobs and stuff.

just honestly i do not know what to do, if you have any help or know of anything that can help me please respond

thank you

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

alright well this whole tickling/foot fetish thing has really been starting to become a concern for me. I have found an amazing g/f but to be totally honest, our sexual relations mostly on my part isnt there because of this stuff. The like only real way i could get totally turned on is by tickling or feet. And i mean yea its fun in all but for this to be runing my sex life and stuff is a HUGE HUGE concern for me. This probably is happening to not only me, and other guys as well, and if it does speakk up about it. Every day now i try and think of a way to try and get rid of it or just fix it. You know what i mean, i what to be turned on by the way she looks, and her animate parts about her like ass and boobs and stuff. It seems kinda silly you konw that its gotta happen like this and i kinda dont like it anymore. I mean ive been trying mentally to help it out, and it seems as though my drive towards it is kinda lessening but i dont know, and still aint gettin the feelings i want towards her nicer attributes like her body and her boobs and stuff.

just honestly i do not know what to do, if you have any help or know of anything that can help me please respond

thank you

I'm honored that you think I specifically can be of some kind of help to you, hopefully I can be (helping on my birthday no less! LOL). Also, congradulations for the courage. Most people PM me about this, so this is actually a first, to my recollection. For future reference, you may contact me privately if you would like.

In fact, if you would rather talk about this privately that still an option for you. If you prefer that, then simply do not respond to this post and send me a PM or delete this thread.

If not, I'll continue.

First off, I need to know more information before I can really tell you anything.

Firstly, how sexually active are you with her? Once a week? Every other week? Several times a week? Everyday? What?

Secondly, what does your sexual foreplay consist of? Or is it only sexual foreplay at this point?

Thirdly, how did you meet her, where, and what was she wearing?

Fourth, how long after you fell in love with her did you actually get to tickle her for the first time?

(For your ease of mind, these are relevant questions, I'm not attempting to pry or know anything more than you want me to.)