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Ways to define the tickle fetish to someone

ialwayseatsalmo

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When you are "coming out" to someone with your tickle fetish, how do you describe it? p.s. in my case I already tied and tickled the girl, she wasnt mad or anything, but i did not tell her then.
 
So what you're saying is that you somehow convinced this girl to let you tie her up... then you tickled her... and then you were like "I don't know how to break this to ya, but I have a tickle fetish".... :tickle:

Am I reading that right? :shrug: And as for the question, I don't know how else you describe it other than to say you like tickling, lol
 
lol. she did not know i was going to tickle her. it was a very brief tickle though. 30 seconds tops. she is a very good friend, and i wanted to see how she would react to something like that. she wasnt mad, so i feel it could be safe to tell her.
 
Okay, lol... so you haven't told her yet? Given the experience you describe, if she hasn't already figured it out, it doesn't sound like it would be that big a deal if you did. Just say something like... "hey, remember that time I tied you up and tickled you for awhile?" 😀 Can't ask for a better lead-in than that! :thumbsup:
 
yeah. i never told her then. i dont think it would create an awkward feeling or anything. but yeah ive got the perfect opening, i just dont know really how to close. i hate using the word fetish bc then it puts a bad light on it.
 
You don't have to use the word "fetish".... its not something I've ever used to describe it. It's simply a matter of telling her that you like it or you enjoy it... it doesn't have to be anything more than that. Best to just keep it simple... chances are she'll be cool with it, even if she doesn't necessarily like it 🙂
 
Well, let's see. There's "I like tickling," and there's "I get off on tickling and in fact I belong to this big worldwide cyber community where people order videos of people getting tied and tickled, post stories about it, and have conventions where people come from miles away to get together and tie each other up on bondage equipment and tickle each other." And there are gradations in between. But actually, you are in a little bit of a danger zone, because doing something that seemed funny and playful to her, and then telling her that what you did was a sexual act for you--that may or may not go over well. The thing that I come back to is, when you have a question of whether it's appropriate to tell someone about your tickling fetish (or whatever else you prefer to call it), the answer generally involves considering whether your relationship with this person is conducive to talking about your sex life and your sexuality in general, because essentially what it is. It's not like telling her that you're into rock climbing or stamp collecting.
 
open and honest is the best way to go. It's always been my experience that people don't think much of it. Not as much as we think they will
 
When I had a girlfriend earlier this year, I had met her online and had mentioned something in my profile about, "ticklishness is a plus." After a few dates, we were making out and she briefly tickled me. I told her "I kind of like that," and she replied, "I know" and did it again. So, if she is tickling you, that might be a good time to spill the beans.

And if she's already let you tie her down, she's probably very comfortable with you, so she probably wouldn't react negatively.
 
Depends on what it does for you and how she'll take that. You say she's a good friend but if it turns you on sexually, that might change the dynamic between the two of you so be prepared for that to happen.

Saying, "When I tickle you I think it's kinda hot." and, "When I tickle you it turns me on." are two very different things.
 
Keep it simple.

"Being tickled really turns me on."

or

"Tickling you really turns me on."

or both, as the case may be. 😀
 
Keep it simple.

"Being tickled really turns me on."

or

"Tickling you really turns me on."

or both, as the case may be. 😀

Agreed. Tickling is a part of A LOT of everyday relationships between people who aren't into it the way we are.

It's a very common thing and personally, I've never had a bad reaction.
 
Just go with "Makin people happy gives me hardons". You'll knock her on her ass with that one, lol.
 
well for me tickling is not in the same region of sex. i see girls i would like to tickle. and girls i would like to have sex with. those that i would like to tickle are those that i would trust to either know my fetish, or allow to tie me up. i discussed it with her, and she seemed to be into it, but she does have a boyfriend, and it would definately come in between that. me and her have been friends for a very long time, so there is no awkwardness in our relationship nor will there ever be. although... going back to the whole arousal part of it, is yes... tickling does arouse me, but almost in a different way. i see a nice pair of feet and it makes me wanna tickle them, but that does not mean i would like to have sex with that girl.
 
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