Lol, Artoo you're a legend.
I used to go into the chat room a lot when I was bored. Normally I could ring the main window with unasked for pcs in about 20 minutes on an average day. I always gave men 3 chances to talk to me like a human being rather than a slab of meat (after asking them politely and telling them I didn't cyber) before I told them they were rude and ignored them.
In my couple of years of going into the chatroom a lot I learnt a few things:
1) if you ask someone if you can pc it often gets lost in the main room conversation if it's an average-fast day
2) if someone is polite from the start you will have a good conversation and they tend not to be after purely cyber
3) if someone starts with a/s/l? there's pretty much no hope (although people have surprised me now and then).
4) if you get a reputation as someone who will lay into someone if they're being a jerk after you've given them a few chances people tend to start being more polite towards you (although I wouldn't recommend this path)
5) being called totally_evil, half the time people ask "so why are you totally evil?" - ie no one is original.
6) going into the chatroom is worth it now and then - I first talked to Artoo and my current long term partner in the chat room.