Went to my second foot fetish party

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Okay as some of you know, I told you I was going to the foot fetish party again for February. It was this past Saturday and let me tell you I didn't have fun. Okay the dress theme was to dress like a school girl which I did. I even got a pedicure for the occassion with red nail polish. Wore a black nice short sleeved top, short plaid skirt and open toed shoes (changed into them when I arrived at the party so my feet wouldn't be cold outside).

Anway, when I got there which was around 9:30pm the room was cold and there weren't a lot of people there. I was there for about two hours and I didn't get one foot session . I couldn't really understand it! I mean I was dressed sexy and everything.

Talked to two guys there who I saw at the last party and discussed some things with them. Told them I haven't received any foot sessions. They basically said that it depends on certain things like luck, some men look for only CERTAIN women, a lot of men build up certain clients and they're hesitant to have sessions with any new ladies. Also, most men that go there only want to spend a certain amount of money and they pace themselves on who and when they want to give a lady a foot session.

Anyway, I guess I'll go to three more parties and if I get the same treatment as the party in February I won't go to these parties anymore and decide they're a waste of time. I had an okay time at the one in January but I only got one foot session which is nice but I'd need to get three or more to keep attending these parties. I'll see what happens I guess.


Does anyone have any advice for me as how to get more foot sessions 😕 ?



🙄

 

[Goodieluver]

Just be you and they will come, when dealin with an environment of more female than male, makes things kind of hard, i mean they are givin money so they want the most bang for buck so to speak. Hell, if i was there, much of my financial aid would be goin to yer lovely peds

 

[Darkknight]

LOL. come to IL Jen and you'll have me and Goodie right from the start.

But seriously, guys can be picky like women at a foot session party, or a strip place, or a bar or anywhere we go.

I'm sure you are down to earth and are friendly and I read your last post about your first session. You did some things differently and now nothing this time. I think you have to look at guys right in their eyes and dangling your shoe off your foot. I would melt to have a gal do that, give me that "I want you on my feet now" look. I'm just giving you what would work on me, showing me bare arches and "the look" will have me at you before your shoe hit the ground. Well I'm shy at first... so right after your shoe hit the ground. 😉

DK

 

[Thanatos]

Next time you're going to go, you should post the details beforehand on the Forum. I'm sure a few guys reading here would go out of their way to make the party.

 

[Fred46]

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Anway, when I got there which was around 9:30pm the room was cold and there weren't a lot of people there. I was there for about two hours and I didn't get one foot session . I couldn't really understand it! I mean I was dressed sexy and everything....



Does anyone have any advice for me as how to get more foot sessions 😕 ?



🙄

If you look anything like the picture, I wonder if you might be too attractive. By that, I mean that sometimes when I notice an attractive girl, I hear a voice in my head that says, "Don't bother!" I know that guys were paying, but I have been blown off by attractive girls at strip clubs when I asked them to dance for me. It seems to me that if you are pretty, friendly, and have cute feet, guys will be interested. It sounds like maybe it was just a slow night.

You mentioned that someone said that some guys have specific girls in mind when they come to these things. That can really be true. There was a particlular dancer I grew attached to, and when I came to the club and she wasn't there, I left. It wasn't that the other girls weren't pretty, but I had my heart set on her, and couldn't afford to blow my money on someone else and still have any for her when she was there next.

I can say that if you were in the Phoenix area, I would definitely ask for a session, even though I don't know exactly what that is. How much does a session cost?

Fred46

 

[Goodieluver]

LOL. come to IL Jen and you'll have me and Goodie right from the start.

But seriously, guys can be picky like women at a foot session party, or a strip place, or a bar or anywhere we go.

I'm sure you are down to earth and are friendly and I read your last post about your first session. You did some things differently and now nothing this time. I think you have to look at guys right in their eyes and dangling your shoe off your foot. I would melt to have a gal do that, give me that "I want you on my feet now" look. I'm just giving you what would work on me, showing me bare arches and "the look" will have me at you before your shoe hit the ground. Well I'm shy at first... so right after your shoe hit the ground. 😉

DK

Hm, we may have to duel as to whom gets to monopolize her feets

 

[LindyHopper]

Hi Jen,

I'm sorry the last party didn't work out so well for you. 🙁 Since I wasn't there, and I've never actually met you, I can't really be sure what's up. But I can tell you what I learned from my experience at the foot party I did.

A lot of the foot guys have very specific things that they like. A lot of guys are into big feet (size 8.5 at least), so that was a whole category of folks not interested in me. Others were looking for long, flexible toes. Then there was this guy waxing rhapsodic about this girl who had beautiful V-shaped, as opposed to U-shaped, toenails (don't ask me - I have no idea). And this other guy who saw me with another model sucking on my toes, who asked to see my big toe before deciding if he wanted to pay money to get involved. I don't know what he was looking for, but apparently it was important. My point is, many of these men have very specific preferences, and if you don't meet them, I don't think there's anything you can do.

That said, a couple of the guys I played with told me they were drawn in by my personality - that I was happy, bubbly, and looked like I was genuinely having fun. I think that even though these guys are paying, they really want to feel like it's a mutually enjoyable experience. I think my smiley personal warmth helped me get a few sessions, and I certain they helped me extend the ones that I had into double- or triple-overtime. So in this sense, what draws a guy to a girl at a footnight is the same as what draws them in at a bar, or a party: a girl who acts friendly and approachable. So flirt. Strike up conversations with the men, and with the women, too. Make friends, fit in - and if you're having a good time, the men will see it, and maybe be attracted to it. And once you do hook them, make eye contact, smile, and make them feel special.

I hope that helps. And I hope you keep at it, if this is something that you're really interested in doing. I think it's kind of like learning any other skill, you know? I remember hearing a quote from a stripper once, that successful stripping is about 10% dancing skill, and 90% knowing how to hook a man, reel him in, and milk him for all he's worth (hey, I'm talking about his money, you sickos! ). Anyway, good luck to you, and let us know how the next one goes! When is it? Around here, we only have them about every couple of months, which is really too bad - I want to go back! 😀

 

[Butterfly wings]

Since with me living in a damn small town and no where near big name citys arghh. I beg dumb the question what goes on at theses foot fetish partys?

I have read about them on this forum a few times now. So i'm just wondering.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

It's interesting that you responded Lindy because I was going to pm you. By the way, the party that you attended probably had A LOT more people there and probably more men than ladies. Also, believe it or not, I went up to guys I was attracted to and struck up a conversation with them like small talk. I did smile, was friendly or bubbly whatever, and that's basically it. How do you make a guy feel special? I am not sure how to do that. I was going to ask you what your secret was and now you have told me.


I guess that being an only child and not having a close relationship with my cousins because they didn't and still don't have strong family values (long story), I've never really had anyone explain to me on how to flirt . My Mom gave me a few tips but it's not the same or as cool as if I had a sister, even a brother or a cousin to explain to me how to do it. By the way good and darknight I appreciate you wanting me to come to IL so you both can give me a foot session. I actually do look somewhat like my sig pic Fred just so you know and thanks for thinking I am attractive.
Also Lindy I try to look like I am having fun but it's hard to do when I am not getting any foot sessions (for example this past party) but I smile and try to make it seem like I am having a good time.


Well Lindy I guess you have what it takes at a foot session party and I don't, well at least not right now. One of the two guys that I was talking to asked me how many foot sessions would it take for me to keep coming and I said at least three. He said that there would have to be more men than ladies in order for me to make that. Well I guess I'll go to the next three parties in the next three months and if I am not successful at those then I won't be going to them anymore. Right now I feel like a foot worship party outcast 🙁 .

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Actually to answer your question Butterfly what happens at these parties is basically men pay to get into the party. Then once there, they check out women they find desirable and eventually have foot sessions with them. The sessions are for ten minutes and he pays the women $20.00. So that's what it costs the guys per foot session.


Hope that helps.

 

[leeboy]

Come visit me !

 

[Angel_2]

I would be more then Glad to give you many foot sessions ticklejen Where do you live?

 

[Butterfly wings]

Actually to answer your question Butterfly what happens at these parties is basically men pay to get into the party. Then once there, they check out women they find desirable and eventually have foot sessions with them. The sessions are for ten minutes and he pays the women $20.00. So that's what it costs the guys per foot session.


Hope that helps.

Yeah that does help Jen. It sounds like a fairly decent idea really. cool. And by foot session you mean massages and other things done to the girls feet? or just only foot massages?

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Ticklejen I will give your feet all the attention they need and deserve

 

[LindyHopper]

Hi Jen!

By the way, the party that you attended probably had A LOT more people there and probably more men than ladies.

That could certainly be. I think the party I was at had, maybe, 40 people in attendance, pretty evenly divided between men and women.

Also, believe it or not, I went up to guys I was attracted to and struck up a conversation with them like small talk. I did smile, was friendly or bubbly whatever, and that's basically it. How do you make a guy feel special?

I think it has to do with treating him like a person, rather than a client, or a mark. Be really interested in who they are, and what they like. I'm not sure how to describe it, but it's something about striking a tone that's personal, rather than businesslike.

And I think for foot session success in general, it's important not to restrict your conversations to men you're attracted to. 😉

I've never really had anyone explain to me on how to flirt . My Mom gave me a few tips but it's not the same or as cool as if I had a sister, even a brother or a cousin to explain to me how to do it.

My mother never taught me how to flirt either (ewww, now that's a yucky image!). No one did. I learned mostly by doing - by talking to guys, and acting cute, or demure, or assertive, and working on reading their responses to see what they liked.

I'd suggest talking to the other women at the next foot party to get their advice on how to get the men's attention. And more importantly, I'd suggest watching them in their interactions with the men - what are they doing that seems to work? Then give it a shot. Practice makes perfect!

Well Lindy I guess you have what it takes at a foot session party and I don't, well at least not right now.

I'm really sorry that you feel that way. 🙁 And I hope I haven't said anything to make it worse - I'm really trying to help, not to make you feel bad.

Anyway, good luck to you, okay? And seriously, don't pin your self-worth to what ends up happening at these parties. They're just a bunch of guys who are into feet, judging the women at these parties mostly on the basis of characteristics that have nothing to do with their coolness as a person. Their opinions shouldn't dent how you feel about yourself.

 

[LindyHopper]

Yeah that does help Jen. It sounds like a fairly decent idea really. cool. And by foot session you mean massages and other things done to the girls feet? or just only foot massages?

At the party I attended, I'd say it was about 95% toe-sucking, licking soles, and rubbing feet on the guys' faces. I also saw a tiny bit of trampling and sock-sniffing. I tried to describe the scene pretty well in my opening post in that other thread, which is http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=74599 if you want to check it.

 

[Butterfly wings]

Ok thanks Lindy

 

[Soda83pop]

The big toe thing. At a foot board I used to hang at alot there were quite a few people who were into big toes that were much larger proportionally than the remaining toes.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Just so you know Lindy I really appreciate you trying to help me and all. You aren't making anything worse it's just that I feel somewhat jealous of you because you did get a lot more foot sessions. It seems that you're saying to treat men as if I am at a club and just flirting with them. It seems that one of the reasons you'd get more sessions is because there were at least 40 people at the foot party you attended.

At my party there were about maybe 20 people there, more women than men. So of course the men have more choices. All I am saying is that I'll attend the foot parties in March, April and May and if I only get one or two foot sessions at those parties then they're not worth attending anymore.
Also, I know you are sad because I am sad about these parties but it's really hard to have fun at these foot parties when you're getting only one foot session like at my first party. Also, it's hard to watch other women getting them and you know you want them. My second party I didn't get any foot sessions and it's very hard to have fun then but I'll see what happens at future parties.

 

[Goodieluver]

Just so you know Lindy I really appreciate you trying to help me and all. You aren't making anything worse it's just that I feel somewhat jealous of you because you did get a lot more foot sessions. It seems that you're saying to treat men as if I am at a club and just flirting with them. It seems that one of the reasons you'd get more sessions is because there were at least 40 people at the foot party you attended.

At my party there were about maybe 20 people there, more women than men. So of course the men have more choices. All I am saying is that I'll attend the foot parties in March, April and May and if I only get one or two foot sessions at those parties then they're not worth attending anymore.
Also, I know you are sad because I am sad about these parties but it's really hard to have fun at these foot parties when you're getting only one foot session like at my first party. Also, it's hard to watch other women getting them and you know you want them. My second party I didn't get any foot sessions and it's very hard to have fun then but I'll see what happens at future parties.

U could try to be dominatrix style, junp up, shove a guy down and stick your foot in his face and say "u will have a session with me!"

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

I like the way you think Good. LOL that's funny! You are so cute!

 

[Bonds1957]

I think Goodieluver is on to something. If being flirty and bubbly isn't working out, try changing tactics. Be more assertive, even dominatrix like. If you can, dress in leather or other fetish material. Maybe carry around a pair of handcuffs, or hang them off your belt in plain site. If you see someone alone, who is looking for a foot session, approach them. Dangle the cuffs infront of them and tell them they are going to be your slave boy. I'm generalizing, but I think alot of men into worshiping feet would be quite submissive.

 

[DEEPSHOTONE]

Dont give just yet!!!

Hey Jen, I'm sorry your last foot party didn't go as planed, but hang in there, it will get better. I think what happend was just a "fluke". While living in Vegas I atteded many parties and all the women there made a ton of money. I dont think attractiveness has anything to do with it. The parties I attended the women's looks ranged from plain Jane's, to big girls, to knock out super model types. And they all were getting their fair share of action. I think the guys at your party were either scared as hell to be there or broke!!! The only thing I can come up with as to what went wrong is that may be you have unattractive feet. But I doubt that. Because if you did I'm pretty sure you know this and would not have attended the party in the first place. What you experienced was not your typical foot party. If you look anything like your signature pic you shouldn't have had any problems. I'm shocked that you weren't mobed. Yes, I'll admidt that guys can be very picky at these parties (remember its their money)but as the night goes on each woman will have had 5 - 10 sessions for the night. Some less but most more. You should try it a couple of more times before you call it quits. And I would not suggest that you become more assertive. These guys are already scared shitless and that would freak them out. Continue to smile , be yourself and make the guy feel at ease. In some of cases, girls might not have good night financially but the contacts make it worth attending . Keep this in mind, some guys do want to play in the presence of others. Many of them are look for girls to do private sessions(not sex). Now this may not be your thing but it does happen. This is how I met my "Lee". Which I'll be seeing in Vegas March 8-13 and we have two long tickling sessions planed (Lucky Me)

Just my Two cents!!
Mandell (Deepshotone)

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Well Deep I am going to attend the foot parties in March, April and May. If I don't have much success at those parties then maybe I shouldn't attend them anymore. You're right I shouldn't give up that easy and I won't but I'll see what happens. I am not trying to brag or anything but I do look somewhat like my sig pic except my breasts are smaller. Just remember, the last foot party I attended there weren't a lot of people, he has these parties in a warehouse now (before it was his house but they got busted by the cops last time it was there because they were too loud I guess) and it was cold in there as well.

So I'll keep trying and I'll keep you posted. I really hope it'll get better. Also, the foot party that you went to in Vegas there were probably a lot more people there. Also, I have been told that my feet are attractive. Actually at the foot party I attended in January one guy gave me a foot session which was really good. Afterwards, he was so impressed with my feet he asked me if he could take a few pics of my feet with his digital camera. He said it would just be my feet and I said fine. I just thought that was really cool .

 

[sparkybdj]

hmmmm

sounds like u should come toChicago, plenty ofwilling participants here, lol