I appreciate the engagement, and I find the list of y'all's kinks extremely interesting! 💕
To repeat the secondary question (for those of you willing to answer):
Is it more or less easy/ difficult to indulge in your other kinky interests and fetishes as it is to indulge in tickling?
I will use the next post to include some of the other things I am into, but I had some questions about being into men's feet.
So to clarify:
This is so interesting to me. It's not unheard of for women to be into feet, but it does seem to be significantly less common. I wonder if that is what makes you more hesitant or shy about it. My wife is not especially into feet, per se, but will occasionally nibble on mine during a session. It always surprises me and it tickles like hell. I think it's really cool that you like this and I think a lot of guys, especially "foot guys" would be very intrigued by it. It's unusual in the best way 🙂
My hesitation actually has more to do with the perception of the shift in power dynamics rather than commonality. The perception of foot worship is that the receiver is in power over the giver as they kneel and worship the feet of the person above them. Most depictions of this show the woman (the receiver) as the one in control as she looks down with quiet pleasure as the man in a show of submission gently kisses her feet.
My perception (mainly due to my own reactions when receiving foot worship) is flipped. Because of how extremely sensitive my feet are to stimulation, when I am receiving- I am NOT in control. The giver has control over me. The power is theirs, not mine. And although foot worship can been seen as a submissive act, I tend to approach it the opposite way. The giver has the power. I want my receiver to react to each kiss, nibble, lick, etc. closer to the way that I react. I want it to feel tender, sweet, ticklish, torturous... I want to hear them laugh, beg, moan... all of the things. And in the same way that I am hoping to send them "down the rabbit hole" of pleasurable sensations and conflicting emotions, I want to walk that tightrope walk bordering along having complete control and losing control with engaging in an act I thoroughly enjoy- The scent and taste of his feet, the feel of him on my face... in my mouth, the flexing and wiggling, the desperate giggling, the sounds he makes- Goodness me!
So- Even though I am a ler-leaning switch... A male lee (or switch) is less common. Almost all of the men I engage with are lers. It is extremely difficult for me to ask a male tickler to switch and receive what he is not willing to do in the first place. It's an almost impossible thing for me to ask when I am respecting set boundaries. I just choose not to ask.
When I am lucky enough to have a session with a man who will allow me to be the tickler- even that isn't a homerun. I'm not automatically compelled to do this to every pair of feet I see. It has more to do with the connection and chemistry I have with my ticklee. Sometimes I don't feel it. Sometimes I crave it... It just depends on the person much more than the pair of feet. So- It's like... I have to encounter a series of fortunate events before I feel comfortable enough to even ask. And I'm kinda shy. (shut up LOL) Takes a whole hell of a lot for me to ask. And then, the consent... the person has to want it (like desire it), or I won't consider it at all. (An offhand "Sure, if you want!" won't get me there.)
So... I focus on the biggest hurdle... Finding men who are willing to play the switch (golden ticket) or the lee (also golden ticket lol). I just REALLY like tickling men. They are my favorite! 😂 And after we have had a couple of sessions, the chemistry is there, and we both feel comfortable- then I may ask if it's ok for me to worship their feet.
