ticklingfeet4fu said:
I agree with Sadira. I am a LER. I would never tickle LEEs beyond their limits. It is just sadistic and wrong. Tickling is about trust. If you push beyond limits then as Sadira said you will be known as a hated LER and that news gets around fast. I tickled Sadira and Kitten and they are waiting for me to tickle them again and they have told people I am a good LER. A good rep is always good in the community.
Agreed.. mostly..
Never say never... unless you really would never
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There are some elements of ticklish play and players who really do want to be tickled beyond limits, to be pushed onto a whole new level of experience/lee space. This extreme edge play really should only be attempted by those who have extremely acute perception (and between play partners who know each other *well*) because the very health of the lee is in your hands during a session such as this.
There is nothing wrong with this kind of play, it's simply another facet in the gem of tickling, but it's certainly not for everyone.
Also, it could be argued that since the lee wants to be tickled "beyond limits" that the original "limit" that she's being tickled "beyond" didn't exist in the first place, but is actually at the stopping point that is supposedly "beyond the limit".
I don't know for sure about that, but I do know that a lee's limits ebb and flow on a daily or even hour to hour basis... what's 'in the zone' today may very well be far beyond what your lee can handle tomorrow, or did handle yesterday. Perception, and paying attention is paramount.
I've also been with a lee or two who swore up and down she wanted to be tickled beyond her limits, and then once in the situation, really couldn't take it.. so you have to watch that body language.. it will tell you everything you need to know.
We have a tendency (or maybe elevendency) to fantasize about far more than we are able to really do.. especially in the throes of passion.
Okay, all that BS rambling out of the way... to answer the question.. I don't have to, Mimi already has
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