What would you ask a potential gf/bf?

[rannytks]

If there was anything, absolutely anything, that you ask a potential date (tickling or non-tickling related), without the fear of being thought of that you are weird, what would you ask?

For example, a popular question would be "where are you ticklish".

This is just to help a friend make a questionaire for his non-commercial dating site project. But I'm interested in seeing the results as well.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

back in the day, after spending some time to get comfortable with the potential g/f, i would ask some basic questions once she knew about my fetish. and since, very rarely, i was able to get far enough to ask said questions, i made sure i worded them well enough to not sound uber-creepy.

"you have a great laugh. hey, are you ticklish at all?"
"heh, that's kind of funny! so, where would you say could be your worst spot?" normally after this one, she wouldn't say, which would then allow me to follow up with "oh...you're gonna let me find out on my own?" there were some others i'd ask, but it's been awhile...but i would try to work in into conversation as easily as possible, and make it sound more like heavy flirting than anything else.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Well I would have to say..

"Do you like to be tickled??" then she would probably say...yes or no and then say "why do you want to know?"

but I don't have that delema anymore..whew!

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

"How do you feel about abstinence until marriage?"

 

[maniactickler]

My question is "are you horribly ticklish? and if you are, would you let me strap you down and tickle the crap out of you?"

 

[Red_Feather]

Once we were comfortable together, I'd ask: 'What turns you on?' In the process of them revealing their likes, I would of course reveal mine. 😀

My outlook is that it's better to reveal an 'interest' by both sides being open on with what they like. It's not just a one way street.

 

[ChosenofMystra]

Once we were comfortable together, I'd ask: 'What turns you on?' In the process of them revealing their likes, I would of course reveal mine. 😀

My outlook is that it's better to reveal an 'interest' by both sides being open on with what they like. It's not just a one way street.

Bingo! Ditto, I completely agree

 

[RChello]

i'd ask the very obvious question...

do you have 5 or 6 very ticklish girlfriends of yours who are deathly ticklish in case this doesn't work out?🙂 (Ducking and running like hell....)

 

[ManOMann100]

I usually use tickling as a light flirting method and just see how she responds: if she likes or not and if she tickles back and how long it goes on. This should def. not be a first technique used, but it still works. Lots of guys, even guys who aren't into tickling, use it as a way of flirting. Plus, even if she isn't a closet tickle fetishist, chances are she might still enjoy it as something fun. The whole point here is to NOT OVERDO IT. lol.

 

[sole seeker]

Aside from the obvious, "do you enjoy being tickled" you might consider asking the all important, "do you swallow".

 

[crydun]

here's what I use:

Tell me more about yourself

What do you want to know?

hmmmm, lots of things... ok, here's one. what makes you laugh?

__________________________(their answer goes here. it varies guy to guy)

cool. Are you ticklish?

It usually goes well.

 

[He-Man]

Well, if she was a martial arts student like me(or even a martial arts instructor), I'd ask something like "You ever thought of using the belts we get for things other than showing our rank? Like tying up and tickle-torturing a ticklish guy like me?" 😀