When do you own up to your fetish?

[briant0625]

When did you tell your partner about your fetish. Just looking for some advise on this. Back in the friggin dating scene again. It sucks!!! And to wemen how do I put it across to them without making them uncomfortable or freaked out? Thank everyone.

 

[tklishgf]

I didn't even relise that you posted this becuase I just posted something asking baout the same thing. I hope we can get advice. I f you get any good information could you share it with me?

 

[Camel26]

I brought it up about 3 or 4 months after we started dating (we've been together almost 4 years!) and said that I was willing to do ANYTHING for her in the bedroom...I was willing to fulfill any fantasies she might have...and that she could tell me anything and I wouldn't be weirded out...and she said ok, and that she'd do the same for me, and asked if I was trying to tell her something...and she kinda proceeded to drag it out of me from there...

Just don't make it a big deal...keep it casual...make sure you stress that it's her tickling you/you tickling her that turns you on, or the sound of HER laughter or whatever...keep it focused on how much she turns you on...

I'm a chick...we dig hearing such things...:redface:

Best of luck! It's hard, but worthwhile to tell your partner...

 

[DarkPoet]

Well, in my circle, I'm kinda popular for tickling, so it's not much of a secret as far as I go along. And most girls are all about the tickling if you're playful enough. *shrug* But it does also depend on the girl. I've met some girls who didn't like the tickling, but if you do it just right, you can get things to change around. But you have to be careful, patient and understanding. Be a people person ^^.

 

[MistressValerie1]

I told my then-future subby hubby about my interest after he mentioned that he liked to be tickled 😱 I had been seeing him for a few weeks and had dropped a hint, which he instantly picked up on.

 

[88tklr]

I didn't realize that my fetish was an actual fetish until after I was married. My wife has grown with me every step of the way. She's even discovered a few of her own! 😉

 

[gilmourwaters]

before i got married i told the girls i was dating right away.....friends knew too.Always own up to it...you never know what fun you'll be missing it you don't...if they aren't open minded enough to at least try it..no point in keeping the relationship anyway.NEVER ALTER WHO YOU REALLY ARE FOR ANYONE!...be true to yourself

 

[TickledToDeath]

The sooner the better....after the first date or two.

TTD