When you wish upon a MILT...

[Garamonde]

I've known this one lady for almost a year now. She is REALLY, REALLY cute, smart and really sexy. Unfortunately, she's seeing another woman. That's just the way isn't it? Every time I meet a woman she's either taken or a lesbian. Anyways, after class we usually walk together and a couple weeks ago I got up the courage to tickle her armpits, and that was very fun. Made her giggle and really made me feel good. She's about 40, she wears glasses... she is just such an attractive and sweet lady. I just wish she wasn't taken... such a shame really. 😱

(BTW for those of you who are wondering WTF MILT Stands for... Mother I'd Like to Tickle. I just thought I'd say for the 0.005% of the people on this forum who didn't know yet)

 

[rha]

be her friend and see where it gets you. She may not be a lesbian she may be bisexual.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Her seeing someone else shouldn't make much of a difference as long as she and her girlfriend know you are just tickling out of fun but I think you want more from her then just a friend from the sounds of it.

 

[bondagebabe]

I may be wrong, but i don't think most of us tickle "for fun". Most of us tickle for some sort of sexual arousal. Would you kiss a girl that is with someone else? If not then you probably shouldn't tickle either. Even if they are fine with it, to most of us tickling is sexual and I feel it should not be done with people in a relationship just like you shouldn't kiss someone in a relationship. It is your behavior that makes women be cautious of men and their alternative motives. She is not single, cant she just be happy without you making sexual advances on her.

 

[kis123]

I may be wrong, but i don't think most of us tickle "for fun". Most of us tickle for some sort of sexual arousal. Would you kiss a girl that is with someone else? If not then you probably shouldn't tickle either. Even if they are fine with it, to most of us tickling is sexual and I feel it should not be done with people in a relationship just like you shouldn't kiss someone in a relationship. It is your behavior that makes women be cautious of men and their alternative motives. She is not single, cant she just be happy without you making sexual advances on her.

Tickling may be sexual for most, but it isn't sexual for ALL. It's only sexual for me in the context of SO relationships; I can tickle and be tickled by someone else without getting all hot-n-bothered.

I get the feeling by the end of the day the OP will regret posting this encounter.........

 

[DJ Tickler]

I may be wrong, but i don't think most of us tickle "for fun". Most of us tickle for some sort of sexual arousal. Would you kiss a girl that is with someone else? If not then you probably shouldn't tickle either. Even if they are fine with it, to most of us tickling is sexual and I feel it should not be done with people in a relationship just like you shouldn't kiss someone in a relationship. It is your behavior that makes women be cautious of men and their alternative motives. She is not single, cant she just be happy without you making sexual advances on her.

Whoa!! Hold your horses there.

Just because tickling can be a sexual thing does not mean he is coming on to her. And even if he is, abit of harmless flirtation is not a bad thing.
If he was jumping all over her and trying to kiss her, then I would agree with you, but some playful tickling to a woman who is in a relationship is not what I consider a “comeon”

Just my opinion

DJ Tickler

 

[bondagebabe]

I think many of us get turned on by ticking thee same was some get turned on by kissing...i feel to us ticklers its all the same. I feel there is harming flirting with a women who i happy and if i were in her shoes I would deam this persons behavior inappropriate. Just because the rest of the world doesn't view ticking as harmful, i think we all know it is a sexual turn on. why else would he have tickled her if he was not getting turned o from watching her squirm.

 

[kis123]

I think many of us get turned on by ticking thee same was some get turned on by kissing...i feel to us ticklers its all the same. I feel there is harming flirting with a women who i happy and if i were in her shoes I would deam this persons behavior inappropriate. Just because the rest of the world doesn't view ticking as harmful, i think we all know it is a sexual turn on. why else would he have tickled her if he was not getting turned o from watching her squirm.

I've tickled and have been tickled by several people who I've never kissed so I'm finding your kissing analogy a little lacking.

Again, tickling is NOT a sexual turn on for everyone. Besides the OP said she's gay; now unless he's bi, that's not going to get him particulary far in the sexual department.

 

[bondagebabe]

I just know guys think it is Innocent flirting to tickle me sometimes. Well its not i hate it and if i were physically strong enough i would kill them with my bare hands, or at least beet the shit out of them. It is inappropriate for a guy to tickle a lesbian. Since I am not strong enough all I can do is ask them to stop and hope they stop. It still makes me feel violated an many lesbians would agree with me.

 

[BellaRisa]

It is inappropriate for a guy to tickle a lesbian.

Ok, this is currently my favorite sentence

 

[kis123]

Ok, this is currently my favorite sentence

I simply have no comment...........

 

[Tidas]

I think many of us get turned on by ticking thee same was some get turned on by kissing...

Going to play a bit of Devil's Advocate here but, Do you kiss your mother? siblings?

I agree that in most cases for the happy folk of the TMF, tickling is sexual. However, it can be friendly, and for the OP I say right on! Good job and go for it, you may get hurt in the end, but have fun and it may lead to something nice 🙂 If she is uncomfortable with it, I guarantee she will let you know. Oh, and nice job tickling the armpits! Man after my own heart 🙂

 

[Em Es]

Garamonde, you may be able to work this M.I.L.T.

The next best thing to having a lover who satisifies your tickling desire is a tickle buddy on the side. Garamonde, use judgment of course, but I suggest you try buidling on this one armpits tickle and see what happens. For all you know, this woman is the kind who lets you get away with it and may actually enjoy the attention, even if her sexual desire is not woman-man.

Were I in your position, I'd repeat the occasional tickles. Unless she objects, I'd gradually build the frequency and duration while also engaging her in conversation about tickling. Tell your own stories about tickling and getting tickled, and see if she shares any.

Who knows, maybe her gay lover tickles her. Who is to say this M.I.L.T. and her lady friend won't invite you over for a mf/f session? Even if you don't earn that much trust or even get to the point where the scenario could come up, why not have as much fun with her as she allows? Always respect a woman's limits, but don't assume they are so strict that you can't test them.

 

[bondagebabe]

Going to play a bit of Devil's Advocate here but, Do you kiss your mother? siblings?

No, never have, mom left at like 2, so i never knew her...dad was a abusive alcoholic and my brother, well that just disgusting to kiss my brother.

i just don't see the problem with asking first. And guys get carried away with tickling cuz the never know if stop mean "really stop" or "i love this tickling but want to struggle". When you tickled her armpits, did she say stop? how do you know if she is serious or just being playfull. Either way it seems inappropriate

 

[VbRef22]

MILT

do many people HAVE beet shit in them?

 

[Aragon]

Well, I believe that if you're up front about everything, all will be well. As for not tickling a lesbian, explain how I have a female friend that I have never cared about sexually, but she has actually snuggled back to me when I tickled her. I know that I don't even rate as anything but a friend and she doesn't stir me, but we are friends. She is quite ticklish and her last lover used me as incentive to get her to do little things. BDSM relationship, by the way.

So, why shouldn't I tickle a friend of almost twenty years when it is fun for both of us and not sexual?

As for being attracted to an untouchable woman, well, be friends. She seems to want at least that.

 

[DJ Tickler]

It is inappropriate for a guy to tickle a lesbian.

Let me start by a great big

I must say Bondagebabe, I think you are projecting your own feellings as a universal truth but I think you will find most people not agreeing with you on this one.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, just remember that make sure you state "in my opinion"

Just my opinion 😉

DJ Tickler

 

[rha]

It is inappropriate for a guy to tickle a lesbian.

Is this in the Geneva Conventions?

 

[Tidas]

No, never have, mom left at like 2, so i never knew her...dad was a abusive alcoholic and my brother, well that just disgusting to kiss my brother.

i just don't see the problem with asking first. And guys get carried away with tickling cuz the never know if stop mean "really stop" or "i love this tickling but want to struggle". When you tickled her armpits, did she say stop? how do you know if she is serious or just being playfull. Either way it seems inappropriate

You don't ask people, "may I flirt with you?" Honestly, you need to get over your gender bias before anyone will ever take you seriously. Females take things over the edge from time to time too: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087010/ (ok, bad joke) But seriously, everyone is capable of taking something too far. Sweeping generalizations are logical fallacies in and of themselves.

 

[Garamonde]

Good grief, now i'm really embarrassed that I started this topic in the first place.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I just know guys think it is Innocent flirting to tickle me sometimes. Well its not i hate it and if i were physically strong enough i would kill them with my bare hands, or at least beet the shit out of them. It is inappropriate for a guy to tickle a lesbian. Since I am not strong enough all I can do is ask them to stop and hope they stop. It still makes me feel violated an many lesbians would agree with me.

What if a gay male friend tickled a lesbian..is it still a violation?

 

[kis123]

Good grief, now i'm really embarrassed that I started this topic in the first place.

.........told you so........

This is why I rarely start threads around here.