When Your "R" Becomes An "E" - Evolution of Your Fetish

[Ocean]

My sexuality seems to be ever evolving; as far as tickling is concerned, I've always primarily been a "'ler" and my focus has always been on feet. I'd never really been turned on by armpit tickling, but recently (within the past few years) I've noticed that it's becoming as much of a turn on as foot tickling.

More notably, the sexual "role" I'd like to fulfill has also expanded to include being a "'lee." I've never really had any sexual interest in being tickled myself -- my role was always the tormentor, however, more and more, I find I'm fantasizing about being bound and at the mercy of a beautiful woman, while she slowly tickles me into a convulsing, begging mess.

It isn't all having to do with tickling; as I'm exploring my sexuality further, I'm finding at this time in my life being submissive and vulnerable to a woman is something that peaks my interest, which is contrary to my usual sexual role thus far. To add, I've also noticed the more muscular and shapely I become, the more I desire this type of treatment -- it feels so much better to be touched in that way, and also looking and being so strong yet at the mercy of a confident and sexy partner.

I want to make it clear that I'm still also a "'ler," lol, but has anyone else had this "evolution" of sexuality? What are your thoughts on it?

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

If I've learned anything over the past year or two it's that you never know yourself as well as you think you do. I was positive that I knew what I liked and what I didn't like. I maintained a healthy curiosity about other things, but it was always from the point of view of someone else. Never in a million years did I imagine that would ever be me. It only took a few people and a few encouraging words to get me looking at things from another perspective, and now I feel like I'm learning something new about myself all the time. I'm constantly finding myself curious about new things and enjoying new experiences, and I hope that that doesn't change any time soon. I would love it if my interests and sexuality continued to evolve like this forever. It's exciting to constantly be discovering something new about yourself. So congrats - have fun with it 🙂

 

[Artoo]

What Skippy said.

I've changed so much (in terms of my desires) in the past few years that sometimes I barely recognise myself. Sometimes all it takes is a little introspection.