Which is easier to admit?

[Ticklerguy4u]

Do you think it is easier to admit to non-tickphiles that you love to be tickled or that you love to tickle. I think its easier to admit you are a lee because its your body and you are allowing it to happen. Most people not considering a fetish still like to tickle. Whereas, a ler may be considered perverted because he is the one doing the tickling. I know from experience that some girls have gotten uncomfortable with me tickling them once they found out its a fetish and I think about it often and its not just playfulness on my part.

 

[SX10]

I think it Is easier to admit being a lee for the very reasons you've stated. Admitting to being a ler is alright in the right situations but I don't think I could tickle a friend I've admitted that to because it would get awkward fast and not everyone is going to understand that it can be just playful and not always sexual.

 

[rhiannon]

Do you think it is easier to admit to non-tickphiles that you love to be tickled or that you love to tickle. I think its easier to admit you are a lee because its your body and you are allowing it to happen. Most people not considering a fetish still like to tickle. Whereas, a ler may be considered perverted because he is the one doing the tickling. I know from experience that some girls have gotten uncomfortable with me tickling them once they found out its a fetish and I think about it often and its not just playfulness on my part.

Totally agree with you. A ler can be looked at as scary because in a way what he/she enjoys is torturing people. That's where the problem is.

 

[ticklehound]

It's so so much easier to admit to women that I love to be tickled than I love to tickle. The look on their faces when I say "I'm ticklish" has been priceless on many occasions.

It's obvious most people in general enjoy tickling others but don't really enjoy being tickled themselves. This is why I invoke the 'golden rule' - "Tickle unto others as you would have others tickle you!" -- revenge can be sweet!