Which is easier: To 'lee or not to 'lee?

[MrPartickler]

(Ok, I couldn't resist phrasing the question like that...so catchy. 😀 )

This is my noodle-scratcher for today. Over the years, I've seen various folks make the following two kinds of laments:
1) They have trouble finding someone to tickle them the way they'd like to be tickled--i.e., a willing tickler, or
2) They have trouble finding a someone to tickle the way they would like to tickle them--i.e., a willing ticklee.

So, barring "pay-to-play" resources, which do you think is easier to find: someone to tickle you the way you like to be tickled, OR someone to consent to be tickled the way you'd like to tickle him/her?

I suspect male-female ratios will likely affect some of the answers, but perhaps not as much as one might think. All are welcome to weigh-in! 😎

 

[Doubold_T]

Noodle scratcher is an understatement!

I've never really thought about it like that before, but, while I was laid up back in October, I asked every single nurse or aide (All female, of course) if they were ticklish. Most of them grinned, and they all said they were. Being enbolded by this, I got the nerve to tell a few of them about my particular "fascination", and my involvement with the TMF. I was genuinely surprised at the number who replied "Oh! That's so cute!" while beaming at me. So, perhaps, we think too harshly of the "vanilla" world. Maybe they think we're not ALL psycho cases, and might even be acceptable of indulging us somewhat. (I did recieve playful tickles during my stay there.). Maybe willing ticklers would be easier to find, but only because there are lees who won't admit, even to themselves, that they like being tickled, because they think it makes them fetishists, or, even worse, kinky (Gasp!), therefore making them harder to find. Well, that's my two cents.

 

[drew70]

I can't really say, because of the two, I've only actively participated in one, that is to say, looking for willing female ticklers. Still having been active in the community for several years I've made some observations. I think it's easier for lees (whether male or female) to find willing lers than it is for lers to find willing lees.

In my experience, most women like to tickle their boyfriends. Now maybe that doesn't extend to prolonged tickle torture with bondage, but they enjoy it nonetheless.

 

[Em Es]

I think

I think it would be easier to find, as you put it,"someone to tickle you the way you like to be tickled" as opposed to "someone to tickle the way they would like to tickle them."
After all, there are even ticklers who 😡 can't stand it when you tickle them.