Who knows you come to this site?

[duck171]

A question to everyone. Does your other half (gf bf wife ...) know that you are a member of this forum. If so do they help in contribution or read any of the posts? I have not yet told my gf about this forum and am trying to decide what to do. She knows of my fetish and is cool with it and we have been together for a long time (2 1/2 years). Anyway, any help would be kind.

 

[duck171]

Ps. sorry if this is a repost.🙂

 

[Dannigrl]

A couple ex's know, my sister knows.

The group I play with now in bdsm and tickling knows of course. But they don't like me to come here.

I had a harddrive die on me and had to take it to be salvaged. So my computer repairmen knows too!

 

[eagphilly]

My lady knows all about my obession :-D She teases me about it in the way a man ought to be teased XD She's actually been very open about it and is embracing it...I think she likes it 🙂
I told her not too long ago that I posted in this forum, and I contribute art occasionally on it, and I made money off comission drawing tickling pictures. None of that bothered her and Im sure she appreciates the honesty more than anything. The way it went down made me feel like 1. I should have told her sooner than i did 2. It's not a big deal as I made it out to be.

As for you good sir, if you've been together that long and she already knows, then Im sure you can find a way to tell her. I was in your shoes in the fact that my gf knew about my fetish but not my activity. From my experience I gotta say if she accepts the fetish and knows how much it is to you, I'm sure telling her won't put you in danger. In the end we're all here to share a unique fetish. I didn't get the courage to tell my gf from myself, I got advice and read stories and made my move 🙂

Go for it man, in whatever way suits you the best. Just be honest, genuine, and calm about it 😉

 

[duck171]

As for you good sir, if you've been together that long and she already knows, then Im sure you can find a way to tell her. I was in your shoes in the fact that my gf knew about my fetish but not my activity. From my experience I gotta say if she accepts the fetish and knows how much it is to you, I'm sure telling her won't put you in danger. In the end we're all here to share a unique fetish. I didn't get the courage to tell my gf from myself, I got advice and read stories and made my move

Thanks alot man. Good advice that is much needed. I know what you mean about wishing you did it sooner, I wish I had told my lady about my fetish a long time ago instead of waiting a year. Its hard for me to open up about this thing. Anyway thanks to you and anyone else who can give me advise.🙂

 

[duck171]

But they don't like me to come here.

Why is that if you dont mind me asking?

 

[CheshireCatNY]

My girlfriend knows....she's not REALLY into the whole tickling thing but she respects my passion for it nonetheless and realizes its a big part of who I am...she's coming around though...hehehe...:super_hap

 

[nessonite1]

My insignioficant other knows about this and my other forum and a fair amount about the people I talk to. It was hard telling him at first but now it's no big deal.

 

[duck171]

Thanks all for the advice.

 

[Camel26]

My lady has known for years, and even created an account for herself here...she doesn't use it anymore, but she wanted to see for herself what it was like...she's cool with it--beyond cool with it...I adore her for it...

 

[Wade1]

Nah, she doesn't know. Which is fine. I don't tell her every time I'm at a newsstand and linger over magazines with Chloe Sevigny in them, either.

If she knew I came here, I predict she'd mock me mercilessly, put on a big show of feigned outrage and tickle the living crap outta me. And she does most of those things regularly anyway...