Hello 911 here I just responded to my own pen pal to get it to the top one last time in hope of getting a response. Any man who has posted a pen pal or personal post knows how hard it is to get females to respond due to the fact there are more men then women. So I wonder why is this fetish more popular with men then women and can that be changed? I ask for you the good people of this forum to share your thoughts and theories.