Women, Just curious - do you have trouble finding Lee's?

[David Tyler]

I see a lot of posts in the personals about men looking for female Lee's and I can understand why. Most women who want to be tickled are usually able to find it right in their own neighborhood. Most don't need to do much searching at all unless they're looking for something special.

Us guys, on the other hand, those of us that are Ler's might be good at talking to women but are sometimes reluctant to just ask them outright if they'll let us tickle. We know that we'll get that weird look and sometimes a very insulting laugh. It's just the nature of this fetish.

But back to my question - Do most of the woman who post here have, for whatever reason, any problems finding willing victims? Do you suppose it's because most of us men aren't willing to give up control?

Just curious.

I'm hoping some women will respond with some answers that will shed light on this.

 

[MistressValerie1]

My female friends and I never had problems finding willing male 'lees in sexually liberated Northern California. Here in the Islands, where people are much less tolerant, I think it would be difficult to find a 'lee.

 

[pjladd454]

And then there's England, where sexual liberation is as common as good oral hygiene.

Just doing my part to further cultural stereotypes :happy:

 

[TKLVR181]

To be perfectly honest, I've never sought out a 'lee irl, which is something I'm hoping to change soon, along with my status as single---online, on the other hand, I've had no problem with that. Could be my rep.....:laughing:

 

[nessonite1]

find a 'lee? you must be joking. I have exactly twice this YEAR. That will increase to three and POSSIBLY four before 2007 if I'm lucky.

 

[Yashar]

Question for all male ticklees

This thread seems to be the right place for this question.

As a male ticklee, do you have problems in finding a female tickler?

 

[indivision]

I have had a hard time finding female ticklers, but then again, I really have not known how to go about trying.

It doesn't seem like there are very many female ticklers or male ticklees. I know I've said this before, but it seems that most women tend to be ticklees while most guys tend to be ticklers. Even when they specify that they'll do both, the women usually swing more towards the 'lee end of the spectrum and the guys usually swing more towards the 'ler end of the spectrum.

That's something I've noticed, anyway.

 

[LeeAllure1]

I don't have any trouble. In fact, there are probably too
many people who'd like me to tickle them, than I have
time for. Mind you, not all of them live within half an hour,
but there are enough so that if I was jonesing for someone
to tickle, they aren't more than an hour from me, mostly.
And then there's my uber-ticklish housemate who hates it 🙂

I'm doing far too many other things to worry about, it, as
well. I get plenty of tickling time in, as much as I want,
and still manage to have a life. I also never do any sort of
online "tickling".

Lee

 

[ticklesgr8]

*sneaks up behind Earth & tickles his ribs* Surprise!

 

[F.L. Atlanta 10]

IRL = Haven't looked for a female LER.

On-Screen = I got a few female LERs.

 

[Ticklish Old Man]

This thread seems to be the right place for this question.

As a male ticklee, do you have problems in finding a female tickler?

As a male ticklee, in reallife, not enough, online, I have a few female pals I've gotten to know...(bless 'em all)

 

[TickledToDeath]

I would think it would be very easy for female LERs to find Male LEEs, the problem one would think is finding male LEEs who are genuinly ticklish enough and who are willing and or able enough to withstand all that the Fem LERs wish to dish out!

 

[TickledToDeath]

To be perfectly honest, I've never sought out a 'lee irl, which is something I'm hoping to change soon, along with my status as single---online, on the other hand, I've had no problem with that. Could be my rep.....:laughing:

Tis time you started looking in real life and show for real just how BAD you claim to be!

 

[TickledToDeath]

find a 'lee? you must be joking. I have exactly twice this YEAR. That will increase to three and POSSIBLY four before 2007 if I'm lucky.

YOU ness, are not looking hard enough and or in the right place or you would find what you seek more often.

 

[nessonite1]

I'm afraid I don't seek very often. XP My 'lees are all my ATF boys and our own HDS, and I see them very infrequently indeed. XP

 

[kopfhorer1]

I have spent nearly all of my life as a frustrated 'lee (and 'ler) because of social phobia (no, it's not just a marketing phrase for drug companies, it's quite real). This is complicated by the fact that I don't react to tickling in the usual manner. I'm one of those people who, as Anne Kent Rush wrote in her "Back Rub Book", go into states of Alpha-wave bliss under touches which would have other people confessing their darkest family secrets!

Asking someone I might not know that well for even non-sexual tickle action of some kind is (or at least seems) more difficult to this reporter than seeking out a sex partner might be (not that that's a piece of cake either). I dunno. Anyone here have advice to share?

 

[BigNorm]

down here in Florida it's hard fing female 'lers, but then again, i'm not sure if i'm searching correctly.

 

[gregg1497]

Ticklesgr8, what part of Ohio are you from? I live in Pittsburgh, PA

 

[indivision]

*sneaks up behind Earth & tickles his ribs* Surprise!

*jumps* Hey! I didn't even see you there! And to think...we're fellow buckeyes.

😉

 

[LeeAllure1]

I just don't get "online tickling". If my fingers
aren't connecting with someone else's flesh
(or something like it) it isn't tickling.

There are so many opportunites out there for
just about every type of person (and I've
seen a lot of types at events) that I can't
imagine why someone wouldn't go to one, or
host their own, even if it were a small time thing.

The amazing sound of 30 people laughing in
concert is far more powerful than any written
"hahahaha" could ever be.

Lee

 

[Dude'sonfire]

I think it's generally a lot harder for lees to find lers than vice versa.

A playful, submissive, open minded partner will 95% percent of the time enjoy being tickled, at least with time, whether they're into the whole fetish scene or not, hence a ler (such as myself) will always find a willing victim.

However, to actually find a ler who will actively and independantly want to tickle you, you really have to be looking for someone who's really into the whole thing, and that narrows down your range of choice a lot.

Anyhoo, that's my two cents.

 

[MrPartickler]

There are so many opportunites out there for
just about every type of person (and I've
seen a lot of types at events) that I can't
imagine why someone wouldn't go to one, or
host their own, even if it were a small time thing.

If gatherings are what you mean. I can imagine several good reasons why someone would never want to attend one. (And, yes, this is speaking from experience.)

 

[Tickleslave83]

I'm not sure how to go about finding one. I'm shy and incredibly submissive in general so really I don't even know how to start a relationship period though. 🙁