Wondering!

[dvstyleoflife09]

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now and he knows that i like tickling but... heres the problem... he has always been ticklish for as long as we've been dating until a couple of months ago he just stopped. When I tickle him he acts like it has no effect on him at all when before he would have been trying to get away and laughing. My question is: Is it me? Is he just not ticklish anymore i need answers and anyones advice would be great thanks

 

[leafstk]

He may be just more self concious or perceptive of it now that he knows its something you're "into".... are you strictly a ler with him?

 

[dvstyleoflife09]

No he tickles me alot also

 

[leafstk]

I don't know enough about your situation, but it could be that he is more self concious of it around you now that he knows its something you dig.... eh? I could be wrong... not sure why he would just 'shut off' his ticklishness. Wish I could be of more help 🙁

 

[Canadian_Eh]

He may be just more self concious or perceptive of it now that he knows its something you're "into".... are you strictly a ler with him?

This is actually a very good point. I know for me that changes too, I was never really sure why, but I think it's because he knows it's something i'm 'into' and it's almost taken some of the 'innocent fun' out of it...

 

[KrazieDog]

You got some pretty good responses the first time you asked the question here. According to the time line, its the same guy. Is he still doing it 6 months later? Did you talk to him like you said you were going to? Maybe he's just playing with you or challenging you to do it more? He knows you like it, so just ask him. Good luck.

 

[dvstyleoflife09]

Yes i talked to him and i talked to him tonight and found out new information... He says that he likes tickling also like i do... he also said he used to like being tickled but... the person that used to tickle him is his cousin well she committed suicide when she was 16 and thats always bothered him... im not sure if that has anything to with it was wondering what yall had to say

 

[dvstyleoflife09]

i sure hope so thanks for the comments