Would you let your girlfriend being tied up and tickled by other guy?

[Paultickler]

Through the years I've seen that models come with their bfs several times to the tickling shoots, and I'm just saying 'cause I'd never been in a relationship with a model, and It would probably never happens, but
Wouldn't it be kinda awkward? I know that's their job but that would make me feel pretty jelaous, and that's probably because I have a tickling fetish, and most of that bfs, should be a vainilla.


I don't know, It comes to my mind sometimes. Maybe is just for the money.

PS: Sorry If i'm not clear. My English is out of practice.

 

[triangle]

I guess it's a bit flip-flopped for us, since Rectangle's the one who's "bringing me in" so to speak, but I'd let another woman/women tie him up and have at him in a heartbeat-and I'd probably enjoy it too 😉 People get massages from the opposite sex all the time (naked even!), I personally just don't see why this would be much different.

 

[Rectangle]

As long as it was casual, clothes were on, it wasn't done in secret and all it was, was tickling?

...Absolutely. No problem at all.

What am I even going to be mad at?
"Sweetie, someone touched my feet today. I laughed."
"Welp. Time to get divorced."

At the end of the day that's all it is. Someone is making my wife laugh and that's where it ends. I couldn't bring myself to be upset over that in the least. Hell, I'd encourage it.
I think it ultimately comes down to the individual relationship, but me personally, I see no problem with it.

Now, anything involving nudity or any sexual acts, I'll draw a line, but just tickling?

It's just laughter.
Someone is bringing her out of her shell, making her laugh, and they're both going on their merry way.

I can't even put myself in a mindset to begin to see that as a bad thing.

 

[Paultickler]

As long as it was casual, clothes were on, it wasn't done in secret and all it was, was tickling?

...Absolutely. No problem at all.

What am I even going to be mad at?
"Sweetie, someone touched my feet today. I laughed."
"Welp. Time to get divorced."

At the end of the day that's all it is. Someone is making my wife laugh and that's where it ends. I couldn't bring myself to be upset over that in the least. Hell, I'd encourage it.
I think it ultimately comes down to the individual relationship, but me personally, I see no problem with it.

Now, anything involving nudity or any sexual acts, I'll draw a line, but just tickling?

It's just laughter.
Someone is bringing her out of her shell, making her laugh, and they're both going on their merry way.

I can't even put myself in a mindset to begin to see that as a bad thing.

I forgot to mention the Forced Orgasm and stuff. But I got the point.

 

[Rectangle]

I forgot to mention the Forced Orgasm and stuff. But I got the point.

Yeah..that's a completely different ballpark..

 

[Pghtkltorture]

If it meant my wife was into tickling, I would be ok with it.

 

[milagros317]

Last year I had a session with a professional switch here in my apartment. She had asked if her boyfriend could be present in the apartment but not in the room (presumably for her security) and I said yes. He had no problem and no apparent awkwardness with either way (her as ler or her as lee) at all, but maybe that is because he had seen it dozens of times before. He was relaxed enough to fall asleep in the reclining chair in which he was sitting!

 

[porcelaindoll2]

My husbanId and I are in an open marriage. Jealousy is an emotion that doesn't exists in our relationship and it never will. Hell we can both pretty much fuck and play with whomever we choose both together and solo as long each other knows about it(Dont worry we practice safe sex.). Of course we also understand things happen at the heat of the moment. He is also in the lifestyle as well(We met at a play party.) I know we tend to be in the minority though. He has been to shoots with me and he will model with me as well. If more couples could be like us I bet you the divorce rate would drop. Some couples would probably be happier as well.

 

[Uktickler]

I know where you are coming from Paul

The answer depends on so many things.

If my girlfriend was a model and that was what she did for a living already then I would have accepted that when we started dating, I may not like it but I would accept it. I would probably use it to my advantage and try to get me some extra ticklee time out of it, if I got to go and help with the tickle shoots that would be great.

Also if she was genuinely comfortable with it then that would make a big difference to me too and I would be much more likely to be comfortable with it.

If however I knew she was going to be tickled by someone who creeped her out (just for the money) or if I thought she didn't like it or felt violated in someway then no I wouldn't be able to handle that at all. Then I would do everything I could to get her a new career or earn enough so she didn't have to work or something, but thats more a protective thing that a jealous thing.

My blood boils if I think someone I love is being made to do something they don't want to.

Also on the flip side if my girlfriend was happy being tickled for tickling clips but would not let me tickle her then HELL YES I would be jealous (lol I think we would be EX's very quickly).

 

[Secretlee]

I personally wouldn't be able to handle that. Unfortunately I get really jealous (as much as I try not to) and honestly wouldn't be able to deal with seeing someone else tickle my significant other (unless perhaps if they're a mutual friend, then I might be fine with it).

 

[Adam]

I've never been good at sharing, so no. For me, tickling is an erotic act and, given how it is that way for many who share the fetish, I wouldn't be able to escape the feeling that I was allowing some other guy to get off by tickling my significant other. Likewise, if my significant other also considered it an act of eroticism, it would feel very much like she was being satisfied by another man. Icky feelings for me, personally, that I'd rather not visit.

 

[kingofkaboom]

I say no. Honestly, I'd be a little uncomfortable tickling a woman that I knew was in a relationship; even if her husband/boyfriend whatever said it was ok. Would I still do it? In that circumstance I probably would but in order for me to not feel like I'm doing something wrong I'd have to explain to both of them that tickling can be very sexual for me. But yeah if my girlfriend or wife wanted to be tickled by somebody else then it'd be a definite no. I guess it could get tricky though if she was a fetish model so I'm sure there would be a need to set some ground rules so that she can continue her profession.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

Tied up? No, I would not be okay with that. If it's just random tickling of her by a male friend as they were hanging out, then that would be okay. I tickle women in relationships all the time. One of my best friends is married and I have no problem tickling her. If I had a girlfriend and she was being tickled while I was there I might even join in on the tickling fun and help tickle her. But when it comes to tickling someone tied up, (i'm talking about normal people, not tickle models), that just seems sexual to me because people that set up a date to have a "tickle session" and tie and tickle someone, that's because they have a tickle fetish and so it's sexual and I wouldn't want someone doing something sexual like that with my girlfriend.

Now if I had a girlfriend who was a tickle model, that might be different... Because that's her job... and I think I'd be more comfortable if she was getting tickled for some production company and not just some random guy with a tickle fetish.

 

[OscarTheMonkey]

I think it would be alot of fun.

 

[Coda]

That would definitely depend on the couple's conception of their relationship. (That's one of the nice things about relationships – every couple gets to design their own together.) If it was my relationship and I wasn't already sure, I think I would see that as an opportunity to flesh out that conception with whomever.

 

[tickling=feet]

I am not ok with it at all. My ex worked at a bdsm establishment and it was horrible taking her to work everyday. She saw it was killing me and decided to leave. I didnt tell her to do it but i know she understood.

 

[chicago]

The bf and I play with others but its all pretty tame and with people we both know.

 

[Paultickler]

Thanks for the feedback

 

[XLaughingLisaX]

I honestly would find it ridiculously fun to tickle some random guy's girlfriend haha most likely he wouldn't mind too 😉

 

[clean_kitchen]

Yes. As long as there were appropriate boundaries, she wanted to, etc. As you can probably tell from my writing, it's a fantasy of mine for us both to get tickled by someone.

 

[RoboGull]

He can have her big size 11's...but only if he agrees to suck on her toes 😉