Wouldn't just be easier?

[barefeetarebest]

Okay, cards on the table... I'm experiencing a severe tickling drought, and going through withdrawal, not an abnormal thing for sure for many on this forum-granted.
It is extremely difficult to convert vanilla partners, much less to broach the subject- i've tried that route, and to expect to get them to comprehend the deep seated intensity with which many of us regard our fetish.
All I'm saying is, if our interest is in tickling there should be more dating/relating among the members of this forum... it would kill a lot of desperation.

 

[skulnbone7]

I agree, I have a ad in for a woman around her 40's but I didn't get one hit!!!
I have had luck on sites like e-harmony, etc. I've meet women there that have had no problem with my fetish.
One even loved the TMF site, but other things complicate that relationship.
I have a date this Saturday with someone I meet online and she knows I have a foot fetish, and we joke about the tickling thing and pedicures.

Bottom line, why is it easier for me to meet women out there and not here???

Great topic, I her you!!!

 

[rhiannon]

I doubt that the relation of males and females on this forum is balanced enough to kill a lot of desperation!

 

[Morpheus72]

The answer to your question is obvious if you read some of the posts on here, or if you spend any appreciable length of time in the chatroom.

Short version. Guy notices girl, probably through picture or sig file. Guy treats girl like piece of meat. Girl freaks. Girl is now gunshy to future interaction with guys.

It sucks for those of us that have social skills and respect, but we get found out eventually. Keep up the good work 🙂

 

[MrTicklefeet]

I've always have had to go to outside sources.

 

[Deadsea7777]

I doubt that the relation of males and females on this forum is balanced enough to kill a lot of desperation!

I guess Rhiannon has a point, my guess is that the female/male ratio here is like in the one in the Southamerican Spanish Empire....1/9.

If you are desperate, for a dosis of tickling and nothing else; hire a professional before you get mad.

 

[maniactickler]

When in desperation, bite the bullet and pay for it!

 

[-Hari-]

rent a hooker

 

[Cy/MiG]

rent a hooker

In this economy, now is the time to buy! 😀

 

[ElFewja]

There are plenty of meets, dungeons and the like if your need is so great. I understand your pain; I just got stiffed by someone that was screwing with me. A yes, followed a week later by, oh I just asked this guy out and now you can go to hell. But she's psychotic, so to be expected.

Sucks to say but yeah, you'll probably have to pay if you aren't having good luck in vanilla land (though in response to this, I would recommend just seeking a relationship, because another individual in a caring relationship should be open to these sorts of things, making it win-win).

The second best option that I can recommend is the Philly Foot Party. They do this thing every now and then, they hire models for foot play; there's a yahoo group for it and you should look it up. Be warned that while tickling is accepted it is not a tickling oriented thing.

Etc.

 

[fightinggirl666]

The answer to your question is obvious if you read some of the posts on here, or if you spend any appreciable length of time in the chatroom.

Short version. Guy notices girl, probably through picture or sig file. Guy treats girl like piece of meat. Girl freaks. Girl is now gunshy to future interaction with guys.

It sucks for those of us that have social skills and respect, but we get found out eventually. Keep up the good work 🙂

Thats pretty much right love, from what I've seen on here a lot of guys just don't get how to talk to a girl or are sexist for example (and that can put us off others). There are some lovely guys on here through and it's ashame they get tared with the same brush.

Also well there is more to life than tickling... for some guys tickling is everything but for a lot of us there needs to be other factors too, not just how much you wanna tickle the other person. That interests could be sports, martial arts, cooking, reading or anything else and since so many here are focused on "tickling and nothing but tickling" (i.e. choose dates based tickling) then ya have to look else where don't ya.

 

[rhiannon]

I have never believed in finding someone in a fetish forum! It is hard enough to find someone who is compatible with you anyways, and the probability of finding that special someone that you want to spend your life together with in a tiny community like this goes towards 0! Maybe it's just me, but there are far more important thinks in a relationship than tickling!

 

[FootballGuy]

I wouldn't look for love on this forum. If love finds you here, then that is great but you're better off trying a dating site like match or eHarmony. You can search profiles for keywords and interests and one of the interests is tickling.

That doesn't mean she's into it like we are but if she likes it then making it a part of your relationship will be simple 😀. Not to mention, you can match yourself based on all the other important things you look for in a woman.

The answer to your question is obvious if you read some of the posts on here, or if you spend any appreciable length of time in the chatroom.

Short version. Guy notices girl, probably through picture or sig file. Guy treats girl like piece of meat. Girl freaks. Girl is now gunshy to future interaction with guys.

It sucks for those of us that have social skills and respect, but we get found out eventually. Keep up the good work 🙂

I also agree with this. Even though a lot of guys on here treat the girls poorly, if you just be yourself and put yourself out there a bit (post, let your personality show, put up at least one photo), you'll stand out more and you'd be surprised at how easy it is to meet new friends. 🙂

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I've seen alot of relationships develop out of friendships created on here, and I think that's the best way to go about it. Worry about making friends and let the relationship develop naturally. Anything you rush into or force is going to end up sucking major ass. Be patient 🙂

 

[Master Baiter]

Maybe it's just me, but there are far more important thinks in a relationship than tickling!

*gasp* BLASPHEMY!!!

 

[maniactickler]

I have never believed in finding someone in a fetish forum! It is hard enough to find someone who is compatible with you anyways, and the probability of finding that special someone that you want to spend your life together with in a tiny community like this goes towards 0! Maybe it's just me, but there are far more important thinks in a relationship than tickling!

Not to me.

 

[rhiannon]

Not to me.

Yeah, but you don't look for a relationship, just a chick to tickle! 😀