Questions... (pittiful I know)

Okay, so I have some questions, not to attack anyone or anything, just why questions.

I was abused both physically and sexually by literally every member of my family. I was born in to what some people call a "sex cult".

Why would people have the nerve to call me a "*****"? I have never had sex (except with my fiance) willingly.

I just don't understand why people have the nerve to do such a thing. I am a VERY open-minded person -- I am also very submissive, but that doesn't make me ANYONE'S door-mat!

I am not on this site for "hook-up's", just for a way for me to be able to afford college and to have a job I can laugh at (literally)...

Anyways, I guess I am weird, but why call someone who has literally been out of abuse for one year a "*****"? Why call ANYONE a *****?

This is unrelated to the forum, so I guess I will get offline now, but please, if you don't know what a person has been through, don't judge them. I have seen more in my life than most have seen in a life-time. No one is blameless, no one will go without being judged, so please, leave it be.

-L