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Trouble, But I Think God Willing Escape.

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The story is this.

My Dad thought he was going to need double hip replacement surgery.,

After finding out he does not, he called me and said. "Mitch its a clot, thats "good news" and they are going to take it out.

I called him this morning, no answer. I was getting worried. Four hours later my Dad's number came up, but I could not hear him. I called him back, no answer voicemail.

My worry was increasing through the day of course.

Several hours later, my uncle called. I have not spoken to him much since I saw him during my Dad's planned surgery in early March.

My uncle said.

"Mitch, I wanted to let you know that your father was taken into surgery with a clot, if I were you, I would go to the hospital"

I went running on the subway to the same hospital my Dad had surgery in March2.

I went to the ER. They found my Dad's name and they told me he was in surgery,

They had my Dad's at home nurse''s number, she told me to come home, and that we could not see him tonight, and to come back tomorrow.

When I got back to town, my uncle texted me, and told me that my Dad was out of surgery, and all had gone well,. Thank God.

Now we wait.

If I know my Dad, he will call or text when he wakes up. If not, hopefully God Willing he will get through the night okay, and I will call and go to see him tomorrow.

Any prayers would be appreciated.

The past two plus months have just been too much for my Dad.

I managed to make it down and up several large flights of stairs on the subways carefully without falling.

Right now, my Dad just needs his family, and we have to be there for him.

Sigh! My Dad has had a terrible road the past three plus months and before.

Hopefully this will finally be his last surgery, and he will on the road to recovery.

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I might not be the best person to be responding to this given some circumstances that are going on in my own life right now, but because you know me very well and you know that I always have the best intentions, I'm going to say it anyway.

I don't know the details of this situation, or even who this person is, but from the opposite perspective, what I will say is this. Sometimes when someone hurts you enough times, no matter how much love you have for them, you've got to let go. If they are a repeat offender in a particular area, phrases like, "I'm sorry" and "It won't happen again" don't hold water. As much as it may kill you to eliminate that person from your life, you feel as though you have to for your own sake - emotionally you just can't do it anymore.

That having been said, sometimes people judge too quickly, and don't give you the opportunity to fix your mistakes for fear of being hurt a second time. It's sad and unfortunate, but it's the way things are. Sometimes people that you love more than anything decide to cut you out of their lives by your own fault or through no fault of yours at all. It's horrible and it's agonizing - but you can't make that decision for them.

What's important during times like these is to remember the friends that you do have - people who are there for you and do see the value in your friendship and/or are willing to give you the opportunity to prove that you've changed if you had previously done them wrong. Let those people be there for you, and let yourself lean on them. :bubbleheart:
 
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People change....some quickly, some not so....

Some for the better...some not so..

Keep moving forward within yourself....dont step back because of setbacks....eventually everything will come together for you ...
 
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