For people interested in personally playing with me who are in closed relationships

Look I am in a 100% completely open marriage, so my husband always knows who I am playing with and when I'm going to be playing with them. If you are interested in playing with me and you are in a more monogamous closed type of a relationship especially a vanilla one then honestly I would prefer you to not even think about wanting to play with me. Now if you are in a relationship that's either open or I have heard of people who date vanilla's that have no interest in kink and allow them to see others for kinky play I'm okay with that. The last thing I like to feel is used and if you are using this site to cheat, then I'm sorry but you probably should sit down and think long and hard about your relationship. If Kink is a really a huge important part to your happiness and the person you are with is not letting you indulge then it might be time to think about throwing in the towel especially if you have already talked to them about it and they are vehemently against the idea. Now obviously if you don't tell me you're in a relationship then I will have no way of knowing. I'm not a huge fan of cheating, but at the same time if you know how to be sneaky about it then what can I do. Now trust me I won't be too happy when I learn you've been seeing me whilst being in a closed relationship or even worse I am definitely not going to like it if the person you're in a relationship with goes crazy and comes after me.