This week, I have been, am,, making strides and plans to go on with my life, both while my mom is here, and after.,
I met with my lawyer yesterday. He's very upset about mom, and said he will handle all unfinished legal matters. i also discussed a new business idea with him, which he loved. Lucky for me, because.,. my dad was originally luke warm on it, then when he heard the lawyer;s reaction, he told me he';s going to work with me on it.
My aunt is coming April 4 to April 6. As most people know, Passover is that weekend. My dad's family has big family parties. I floated the idea to my dad to meet Cheryl next weekend, and then asked him to ask our cousin if I can come to the party. My dad says I have to go on with my life, and he's right. We have an understanding that the only way i wont go, is if my mom declines and is medically close to death by April 6-7. The nurses say she isnt close to death yet. This whole thing might be a month away . I'm still sorting. My moms room has everything out of the closet. I just have to deal with all of it when the time is right.
My lawyer gave me the name of a lawyer friend of his who can help me with plans for my business. I know my lawyer wants to be involved. I told him he will be.,
This horrible event is going to hit me,.,. in two weeks, a month, six weeks, but I have to go on with my life. I'm still very upset, and feel sick at times, but.,. I'm beginning to see that part of the problem is that I;m here all alone. If I lived in NY/NJ near family and friends, it will be far different. My dad says that if my mom gets close to death, he wants to be here with me. I appreciate that. I know that I;m still going to be devestated when it happens, but, if I can be around people, and not all alone like I am in this damn apartment all the hrs a day, it will help.
I'll keep everyone posted, Nothing earth shattering is going to happen yet. My aunt told me not to tell my mom where I'm going, for fear she'll think i'll bail., Agreed. I dont see my mom on weekends anyway, so I dont have to.
Mitch
I met with my lawyer yesterday. He's very upset about mom, and said he will handle all unfinished legal matters. i also discussed a new business idea with him, which he loved. Lucky for me, because.,. my dad was originally luke warm on it, then when he heard the lawyer;s reaction, he told me he';s going to work with me on it.
My aunt is coming April 4 to April 6. As most people know, Passover is that weekend. My dad's family has big family parties. I floated the idea to my dad to meet Cheryl next weekend, and then asked him to ask our cousin if I can come to the party. My dad says I have to go on with my life, and he's right. We have an understanding that the only way i wont go, is if my mom declines and is medically close to death by April 6-7. The nurses say she isnt close to death yet. This whole thing might be a month away . I'm still sorting. My moms room has everything out of the closet. I just have to deal with all of it when the time is right.
My lawyer gave me the name of a lawyer friend of his who can help me with plans for my business. I know my lawyer wants to be involved. I told him he will be.,
This horrible event is going to hit me,.,. in two weeks, a month, six weeks, but I have to go on with my life. I'm still very upset, and feel sick at times, but.,. I'm beginning to see that part of the problem is that I;m here all alone. If I lived in NY/NJ near family and friends, it will be far different. My dad says that if my mom gets close to death, he wants to be here with me. I appreciate that. I know that I;m still going to be devestated when it happens, but, if I can be around people, and not all alone like I am in this damn apartment all the hrs a day, it will help.
I'll keep everyone posted, Nothing earth shattering is going to happen yet. My aunt told me not to tell my mom where I'm going, for fear she'll think i'll bail., Agreed. I dont see my mom on weekends anyway, so I dont have to.
Mitch
