NEST 2011 was my first NEST and I am really excited to be able to make it back this year. My boyfriend Alan(NEST name LibertineTNG) will be going with me this year and we're in an open relationship. Now we are both switches, but tend to lean more male Dom/Female sub. I probably will be wearing my spiffy collar he bought for me at Passional. Now if he is in the same room or right next to me I expect you to ask him if it is okay to play with me before asking me, but if you really really want to ask to play with me and boyfriend is nowhere to be seen please ask away. We're not overly formal over BDSM protocol like some people in the scene are. I've always regretted that I didn't get to play with a lot of different people in NEST 2011 and I am hoping to fix that this year. I know online I seem extremely outgoing, but in real life I am kind of shy. My boyfriend is not on this site and he is not the Libertine most people off of here and NESTees know. My boyfriend is libertine333 on FetLife. Oh yeah we may or may not invite people over to our place during the weekend, since we're nine miles down the road. By then my boyfriend should have our wooden bondage frame all built. Plus will still have our huge four post bed with adjustable cuffs attached and our set of stocks. Maybe a spanking bench as well, but I feel that is wishful thinking since he bought the supplies for the frame two months ago and has yet to get started on it.