for the last year, since i met my first true ler, i've been saying that i hadn't been into tickling before then. well, first clue that this might not be the case was discovering an email from someone i dated a couple of years prior talking about the fun i had with us tickling each other.
then, last night i was tickling and being tickled back until he said, "truce." my mind immediately jumped back twenty years to a relationship i was in for five years, four of them living together, where our "safeword" (although i didn't know what a safeword was back then) was "truce." we were constantly, i mean constantly, petting and
tickling each other until one of us called "truce."
how could i have forgotten about that? the relationship was the longest and most serious relationship i've had. the only explanation i can come up with as to why tickling didn't make more of an impression on me per se is that it seemed the most normal and natural thing, something that has probably always been a part of my relationships and childhood. i guess i hadn't really thought anything of it before. it seemed as natural a part of a relationship and foreplay as kissing or hugging. even when i lost my virginity, we had been messing around with each other, tickling and wrestling until i was pinned on the floor with him on top of me giggling then....
a year ago, i would have sworn to you that i didn't have any prior experience with tickling and now more and more examples of it earlier and earlier in my life keep popping up. i constantly see threads where people talk about knowing they were into tickling from childhood and cartoons. i can't say that, yet i can no longer say i'm a recent convert. i have no clue how long i've been into tickling.
i would have also said that i was a lee and didn't know enough about being a ler. yet lately i've had a few opportunities (since consciously being aware of liking tickling) to tickle other people. it's been the most natural and enjoyable thing to me, although i probably still have a preference for being a lee.
so my final answer to the question of when did you discover that you were into tickling would have to be, "i didn't realize that i was into tickling until a year ago, but since then i keep recalling earlier and earlier experiences of tickling being a normal, natural and regular part of my relationships for at least 20 years."
if you had any questions about whether or not i have the ability to be ditzy, this post should answer that question definitively for you 🙂
then, last night i was tickling and being tickled back until he said, "truce." my mind immediately jumped back twenty years to a relationship i was in for five years, four of them living together, where our "safeword" (although i didn't know what a safeword was back then) was "truce." we were constantly, i mean constantly, petting and
tickling each other until one of us called "truce." how could i have forgotten about that? the relationship was the longest and most serious relationship i've had. the only explanation i can come up with as to why tickling didn't make more of an impression on me per se is that it seemed the most normal and natural thing, something that has probably always been a part of my relationships and childhood. i guess i hadn't really thought anything of it before. it seemed as natural a part of a relationship and foreplay as kissing or hugging. even when i lost my virginity, we had been messing around with each other, tickling and wrestling until i was pinned on the floor with him on top of me giggling then....
a year ago, i would have sworn to you that i didn't have any prior experience with tickling and now more and more examples of it earlier and earlier in my life keep popping up. i constantly see threads where people talk about knowing they were into tickling from childhood and cartoons. i can't say that, yet i can no longer say i'm a recent convert. i have no clue how long i've been into tickling.
i would have also said that i was a lee and didn't know enough about being a ler. yet lately i've had a few opportunities (since consciously being aware of liking tickling) to tickle other people. it's been the most natural and enjoyable thing to me, although i probably still have a preference for being a lee.
so my final answer to the question of when did you discover that you were into tickling would have to be, "i didn't realize that i was into tickling until a year ago, but since then i keep recalling earlier and earlier experiences of tickling being a normal, natural and regular part of my relationships for at least 20 years."
if you had any questions about whether or not i have the ability to be ditzy, this post should answer that question definitively for you 🙂
