So I've been on the forum for almost 10 years now. I joined when I was underage, 14, for no other reason then as a source for video clips, looking at photos and reading stories. I never really planned on having any communication base with other members, primarily because of how young I was and I was under the naive assumption that most of the people on here were guys 40 years and over.
In the last 2 weeks I've started going on chat during the night time, just to see what was out there.
One of the things that has surprised me the most is the closed-mindedness of some of the people in there. Don't get me wrong, some of the people I have spoken to on PM have been really lovely, nice and open to talk to but isn't this a forum where you are suppose to be open to talking about tickling? Your experiences? Your desires? Where you like to be tickled? To have fun?
I didn't realize this was a dating site where you had to get to know every little detail about someone before bringing up the topic of tickling. Not everyone does this, but more then a fair share do and the negativity does lower your perception of the community.
What really irks me, is that these people feel the need to come out and trash you in the main chat to other people when things aren't dictated on their terms. When I first come on here, a few people sent me ASL messages and it never really bothered me. It seemed less rude then just flat out asking "How old are you?" and I was taught it was rude to directly ask a woman that.
However, when I dared to ask ASL of another member, I was read the riot act on why it is morally wrong, closed down the conversation, and she continued to send me messages, with me closing down the conversation again and then she started trashing me in the main chat to other people, calling me a creep... WTF?
Similar thing happened with another girl who refused to talk about tickling and she has formed somewhat of a grudge against me, purely because I closed the conversation on her. Another girl refused to talk to me because I typed "u" instead of "you"... apparently it makes a HUGE difference on the type of person you are. Wow.
Just recently I had the nerve to say "Heya" to a female member on chat. I checked her profile and it said "don't message me if you are a male lee or a guy both then please leave me alone thanks". I am neither so I thought it'd be safe. What was her response? "here that thud? that's the sound of you being put on my ignore list" before shortly closing the conversation. At least she made me laugh.
In conclusion the chat is really negative and if you're considering going on there, I'd advise against it.
In the last 2 weeks I've started going on chat during the night time, just to see what was out there.
One of the things that has surprised me the most is the closed-mindedness of some of the people in there. Don't get me wrong, some of the people I have spoken to on PM have been really lovely, nice and open to talk to but isn't this a forum where you are suppose to be open to talking about tickling? Your experiences? Your desires? Where you like to be tickled? To have fun?
I didn't realize this was a dating site where you had to get to know every little detail about someone before bringing up the topic of tickling. Not everyone does this, but more then a fair share do and the negativity does lower your perception of the community.
What really irks me, is that these people feel the need to come out and trash you in the main chat to other people when things aren't dictated on their terms. When I first come on here, a few people sent me ASL messages and it never really bothered me. It seemed less rude then just flat out asking "How old are you?" and I was taught it was rude to directly ask a woman that.
However, when I dared to ask ASL of another member, I was read the riot act on why it is morally wrong, closed down the conversation, and she continued to send me messages, with me closing down the conversation again and then she started trashing me in the main chat to other people, calling me a creep... WTF?
Similar thing happened with another girl who refused to talk about tickling and she has formed somewhat of a grudge against me, purely because I closed the conversation on her. Another girl refused to talk to me because I typed "u" instead of "you"... apparently it makes a HUGE difference on the type of person you are. Wow.
Just recently I had the nerve to say "Heya" to a female member on chat. I checked her profile and it said "don't message me if you are a male lee or a guy both then please leave me alone thanks". I am neither so I thought it'd be safe. What was her response? "here that thud? that's the sound of you being put on my ignore list" before shortly closing the conversation. At least she made me laugh.
In conclusion the chat is really negative and if you're considering going on there, I'd advise against it.