This all started yesterday, most important, about my Dad
My Dad had an appt with the spine Dr yesterday at the Dr's office, but my Dad was in so much pain, that the Dr had to make a housecall.
The end of this story, hopefully, did not happen until today.
This morning, I got my Dad on the phone, and my Dad said.
"Mitch, I'm going to the Er, they are checking for a blood clot in my leg"
I went out to lunch, my Dad called a second time, and said "I'm still in the ER"
Then, when I got home, my Dad called a third time, and said
"Mitch, I dont have a clot, they sent me home"
I called T,. T knew that my father had been in the ER,.
Instead of being supportive, T gave me his "List of things to do" like hes my keeper or his remoted control robot.
Just like he did on March 2 when my Dad had shoulder surgery.
Then my favorite one.
"Youre a 52 year old man doing it yourself "
He;s so mature then instead of facing up to his own character flaws, and issues, he resorts to being an alcoholic, and verbal abuse like he did to his ex fiancé, and he does to me.
After that convo today, I will be seeing him zero times this summer.
Hopefully it will end with him soon.
I just want to try to calm down, and relax.
I hope that tonight is calm.
Luckily my headaches, and pain seem better.
If my Dad is okay, thats the most important thing that matters/
My Dad had an appt with the spine Dr yesterday at the Dr's office, but my Dad was in so much pain, that the Dr had to make a housecall.
The end of this story, hopefully, did not happen until today.
This morning, I got my Dad on the phone, and my Dad said.
"Mitch, I'm going to the Er, they are checking for a blood clot in my leg"
I went out to lunch, my Dad called a second time, and said "I'm still in the ER"
Then, when I got home, my Dad called a third time, and said
"Mitch, I dont have a clot, they sent me home"
I called T,. T knew that my father had been in the ER,.
Instead of being supportive, T gave me his "List of things to do" like hes my keeper or his remoted control robot.
Just like he did on March 2 when my Dad had shoulder surgery.
Then my favorite one.
"Youre a 52 year old man doing it yourself "
He;s so mature then instead of facing up to his own character flaws, and issues, he resorts to being an alcoholic, and verbal abuse like he did to his ex fiancé, and he does to me.
After that convo today, I will be seeing him zero times this summer.
Hopefully it will end with him soon.
I just want to try to calm down, and relax.
I hope that tonight is calm.
Luckily my headaches, and pain seem better.
If my Dad is okay, thats the most important thing that matters/
