I never really thought about it like this. I DON"T judge other people's boundaries. I accept it. It clicks immediately.
When people push mine.... I know they don't know me by how they approach me... SOMETIMES. And since every conversation is different. I'm constantly having to.... every conversation is so different and at this point Idk who knows me... knows that I have a Boyfriend etc etc. It's like I'm constantly having to re explain. Or I'll be knee deep over the course of a few months in correspondence and suddenly I have to put my foot down. It feels like a constant cycle... that has no concrete, understood barriers.
Even on Fetlife... where the profile is dead on in a persons face. I finally just deleted my introduction. No one pays attention. It's MADDENING!!!!
I'm going to hide my profile again. We're not ready to attend events yet anyway.
I get on some level it's the nature of the beast of the internet. But... smfh I just wish their was magical sentence that could just explain away... I've actually thought about copying and pasting my answers. I don't want to do that! That's plastic. I... Idk.