Well for me it is a safety thing. I will always have one. And i also prefer to have a safe word.
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Yes I like to have it encase the shit hits the fan. My lees always have a safeword and I expect them to use it if something is really going awry i.e. they are having health related issues.
Yes I like to have it encase the shit hits the fan. My lees always have a safeword and I expect them to use it if something is really going awry i.e. they are having health related issues.
I always make sure my lee has one just I case. Don't think I'd ever do a session without one. The one rule is it has to be a word other than "stop" because everyone says that when being tickled, anyways 😄
I've never used a safe word with 'lees.
I've never had a problem distinguishing the tone difference between fun, intended distress and actual trauma. Nor have my 'lees ever complained that I kept going after real trauma set in.
Sure.... How else can I taunt my ler when I don't use it?
No, but honestly... LOL Aside from taunting my ler, I think it is important for health and safety reasons for both the lee and the ler.
I realize that there are different strokes for different folks. I will ALWAYS have a safe word in place. Whether it is used or not doesn't matter.
Yeah, all lees are different. I just find that a safe word is always going to reduce the pleasure and thrill of the experience.
Yeah, all lees are different. I just find that a safe word is always going to reduce the pleasure and thrill of the experience.