I think women can be friends with SOME men. I don't think men can be friends with women without some sexual thoughts/fantasies/wishes/wonders. I think the word "friend" is a subjective word too...:). just my two..
There is a soap that comes in a bar form called Fells Napta that I have known other people to use for bugs. I can find it in the grocery stores here in NJ. The little black things might be dung...:shock: ......just sayin'
MSN had this as a feature article today...interesting. Read the comments at the bottom of the page too.
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/family/2012/09/tickling_and_science_how_tickling_a_child_connects_parents_and_kids_.html