Anyone have "cold approach" experience

[mister g]

The simple question is, has anyone ever recruited a lady to be a tickle model with a cold approach?

I know there are a couple guys out there I've seen on youtube that get many random ladies to take off their shoes and stuff on camera and even publicly. Oddly the girls seem pretty unfazed by it. One dude, convinces them he is doing some bogus podiatry exam. lol. It works!!! (I'm sure many of you have seen these videos).

Anyway,

My biggest fear with this approach is public humiliation and or rejection. So I want to avoid that.

I know this method is a lil extreme but...if the the appropriate circumstance presents itself, I think it could possibly work...?(keyword being possibly!)

Please Don't comment if you have no experience with a cold approach method.
I would just prefer not to read a bunch of bad opinions because I'm already aware that some of you are thinking its sexual harassment and I'm going to go to jail or something else ridiculous. It's just not gonna happen that way.

I'm really trying to get valuable insight from someone who has actually tried.

This idea has been inciting to me lately but I want to approach this consciously and cautiously so any legitimate insight would be helpful.

 

[lioclips]

Not sure if this counts in the way you're describing, but i HAVE approached strangers, introduced myself and told them about a paid modeling opportunity before leaving them with my card. Sometimes the word "fetish" was mentioned, sometimes not. My card had my website address, a picture of a laughing woman with feathers around. Never had any of those women reach out though. So in other words: No! lol It is, I'm sure you can imagine simultaneously gut wrenching and no big deal.

 

[ILoveLadyFeet1]

Well, about 9 years ago I approached a 20-something woman who was sunbathing at a park in a beach chair and asked if I could videotape her feet (I have a foot fetish). She was totally cool with it, let me tickle her feet (though she wasn't very ticklish), and then we said goodbye and went on with our days. Obviously, I got lucky with a very laid-back, free-spirited person, and obviously, times have changed since then with harassment talk, all that. Don't know if she counts as a recruited model - it was more of a spontaneous thing. I honestly wouldn't do this again in 2019, though.

Still, this was done in public. I don't know how many people would be up for going back to your place or some other strange location. As far as humiliation and rejection, my attitude is people have FAR worse things to worry about these days like getting blown up, shot, or raped. I imagine most will just say "no", and they'll quickly forget about the goofy person asking them to be a tickle model and move on with their lives.

Just develop intuition and common sense, don't stalk, don't be creepy, and be polite and presentable. And don't obsess over any outcome. If you do, I'm afraid you will be constantly disappointed, and each person you ask will sense that. Follow all laws and all unwritten rules of decency, and you should be fine.

 

[Dr_Galesis]

This is one of the responses you weren't looking for because, to answer the simple question:

The simple question is, has anyone ever recruited a lady to be a tickle model with a cold approach?

No.

But from the rest of your statement, it seems as though you're not just asking the simple question.

I know there are a couple guys out there I've seen on youtube that get many random ladies to take off their shoes and stuff on camera and even publicly. Oddly the girls seem pretty unfazed by it. One dude, convinces them he is doing some bogus podiatry exam. lol. It works!!! (I'm sure many of you have seen these videos).

I've seen the videos you mean. There was a well-known company (can't remember which) who did a series of approaching women on the street and paying them $100 to be tickled. Then there are some videos of young guys who approach women in car parks and petrol stations with their camera and apparently ask them out-of-the-blue but I believe, from the way the women respond, that these are pre-arranged meets. Not least because the women then go further than just removing their shoes and socks.

The old dude with the bogus podiatry exam is all over the internet – YouTube and many other video sites. This guy's videos make me feel uncomfortable as he is outright lying to the women he "studies". It may be exciting to see everyday people rather than porn models get tickled, which is why I believe many people get off on these, but it's his deceit that makes the videos wrong and risks labelling the whole community as weirdos.

Hopefully most people can place aside their selfish desire for kink for long enough to see that if it was their friend, mother, sister or daughter being conned by some random pensioner who is operating under the guise of doing a medical study to which they kindly agree and who then uploads it to every porn site on the planet, they would be pretty disgusted with it. With hundreds of these videos out there, I believe this guy has set himself up to get into a whole heap of trouble when these women start realising this and want to prosecute. At the very least, you could earn a legacy as a creepy person for the price of a few cheap thrills. (Terri DiSisto, anyone...!?)

Someone has already mentioned how times have changed but most of the time morals stay the same, it's public recognition that catches up. It's not a matter of underhandedness ever having been acceptable.

Giving you the benefit of the doubt, mister g, I'd say if you are honest and upfront with the people you approach (actors and models occasionally get spotted on the street by professional agents. Although fetish porn is a little different...) then it would be nice to have a professional video company who deals honestly and legitimately in good quality videos of everyday people (rather than some bloke who's busy fiddling with pinwheels and toothbrushes whilst fumbling with bad camerawork –*God know how he pleasures himself at the same time!).

Anyway,

My biggest fear with this approach is public humiliation and or rejection. So I want to avoid that.

As long as you're behaving professionally, that's something you'll probably get over after the first few approaches.

I know this method is a lil extreme but...if the the appropriate circumstance presents itself, I think it could possibly work...?(keyword being possibly!)

It's only extreme if you're doing it in an underhand manner. What is it about this that you consider "a lil extreme"?

Please Don't comment if you have no experience with a cold approach method.

Too late!

I would just prefer not to read a bunch of bad opinions because I'm already aware that some of you are thinking its sexual harassment and I'm going to go to jail or something else ridiculous. It's just not gonna happen that way.

You're probably bearing in mind the previous thread you posted about constantly touching a friend who doesn't want to be touched. The lawyers would know, but it's probably only sexual harassment if it's non-consensual or done duplicitously.

I'm really trying to get valuable insight from someone who has actually tried.

This idea has been inciting to me lately but I want to approach this consciously and cautiously so any legitimate insight would be helpful.

I think you mean "enticing".

This post contains legitimate insight.

 

[mister g]

Wow. Dr Galesis. You wrote all that at 6am!!? U must have nothing better to do.

What's most funny is the only part of your response that was valuable to me was pointing out that I misspelled the word enticing. How wonderful.

 

[Dr_Galesis]

You are at last correct about one thing – if I’d had something better to do I would’ve been doing it. Although I did see some value in trying to prevent another random saddo from going out in public to inappropriately proposition unsuspecting young women but, as I already suspected about you, you only want to hear from people who back up your view, no matter how misjudged it is. As proven by your previous post: http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?305610-Non-Consensual-Tickling-I-think-I-need-Help (You know, the one where you had to substantially edit the initial post because it became so obvious from everyone’s responses that you were behaving like a seedy creep?)

No doubt you’ll take your layman’s camera and go out armed with a feeble excuse to touch up innocent members of the public. With your first-class social skills, sage philosophies and outstanding ability to overlook sensible advice, I’m sure it will go tremendously for you.

Incidentally, I don’t live in the same country as you. People on different continents are often in different “time zones”, so when it’s 6am where you are, it’s a different time where I am. There – I’ve taught you two things today!

Wow. Dr Galesis. You wrote all that at 6am!!? U must have nothing better to do.

What's most funny is the only part of your response that was valuable to me was pointing out that I misspelled the word enticing. How wonderful.

 

[mister g]

Hooray!! Another Useless response from DR Galesis!

Dr Galesis, what do you provide to the tickling community other than your thoughts?

Check this out- http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...ry-Having-Her-Feet-Tickled-For-The-First-Time

Some seedy creep I must be to convince a college educated, pretty lady to come to my house and be tickled by me.

I would trade content with you and let you view the whole video for free, if you had content to trade? Otherwise, you can subscribe to my page and view it there.

 

[Dr_Galesis]

If you believe people have no value because they give considered responses rather than go out and make videos, then it’s far from just me whose validity as part of the community you are questioning.

Well done – you’ve made some videos and they look half-decent. The type of videos I actually advocated in my original response.

But you continue to sidestep the issues that you find uncomfortable: as you originally came across as a fan-boy and pretender for the type of video made by the creepy old deceptive bloke...

One dude, convinces them he is doing some bogus podiatry exam. lol. It works!!!

...it indicates that you’re looking to do something similar. If not, why would you post this thread when you’ve already cornered the market in college-educated pretty ladies?

Plus, you ignored the single question I asked you: What is it that you consider to be “a lil extreme”?

Is that because you don’t like the answer you’d have to give?

Maybe now I’ve addressed it you’ll feel compelled to answer, or maybe you’ll blag it and make try to make up some alternate intention, or maybe you’ll again stick your fingers in your ears and go, “Nah, nah, nah!” Who knows? Who cares?

Hooray!! Another Useless response from DR Galesis!

Dr Galesis, what do you provide to the tickling community other than your thoughts?

Check this out- http://www.ticklingforum.com/showth...ry-Having-Her-Feet-Tickled-For-The-First-Time

Some seedy creep I must be to convince a college educated, pretty lady to come to my house and be tickled by me.

I would trade content with you and let you view the whole video for free, if you had content to trade? Otherwise, you can subscribe to my page and view it there.

 

[mister g]

Dr Galesis If you like my videos so much you can subscribe here https://www.patreon.com/TickleinLasVegas

Here is something for you to contemplate and dissertate in long winded useless responses. Some people Do, some people don't do. Which are you?


And come on man..... I'm not wasting my time answering unimportant questions from you. I'm not like you, I got things to do.

 

[mister g]

Thanks to Lioclips and IloveLadyfeet for providing some valuable personal experience responses to my question.

I think I will visit your store Lioclips and check out and buy some of your content btw. Thanks for being one of the providers out there. Mad props to you.

 

[Dr_Galesis]

It’s a good job your uncontrollable avoidance defence mechanism didn’t cause you to do exactly as I predicted.

And come on man..... I'm not wasting my time answering unimportant questions from you. I'm not like you, I got things to do.

So, go do those important things and I hope you don’t affect too many people before we see you on the news. Whatever you do, don’t let my comments give you any pause for thought – it ain’t your style.

In future, you might try reading people’s helpful thoughts without your in-built victimhood projecting an antagonistic tone of voice for you.

...but I doubt it.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Galesis did nothing wrong.