My logic is this: I have a tickling fetish, but that does not mean I want to impose that fetish on whoever I am dating. But I do expect the ability to have an adult-like intelligent conversation with her about it. If the girl is not into it, no big deal. If she's into it, that's great. If she freaks out about it and refuses to talk about it, and then judges me for it, she can go fuck off to someone else. We all have our kinks and desires. Ultimately what matters to me is respect, honesty, boundaries, and communication.
So no I will not impose tickling on anyone that doesn't like it. But I will stick jerk off to the videos. It will not interfere with our sex lives, but it will be something on the side that is relevant to my interests and desires.