I think in general we, as a foot/tickling/porn/whatever "community" have a problem with overly-purple, florid prose and various "trigger" words that are included in things purely because the people writing/reading them are getting off on seeing them. I mean, barring the stupid "lee/ler" nonsense we've adopted here, take a shot every time someone here uses the words "exposed", "helpless", "sensitive", or "vulnerable".
I think people who, for lack of a better word, type "normally" - occasionally get fatigued about this stuff and depending on their associations with the words in question, may think that the people using them sound like they have heads in their freezer, because "normal" people don't talk like that. And honestly? Nine times out of ten, they use this weird-ass vocabulary with normies, who consequently think they're creepy, and then they come here and cry that "women don't like my fetish".
There's something to be said for how you present yourselves, and this is not the way towards the wider acceptance many here seem to crave.
Think about it.