duderino84
2nd Level Orange Feather
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Well if you're been getting more "mean" or aggressive... yeah I think I could see how women might start turning off or away from it.
Well I'm not trying to talk about myself; I'm talking about the act of tickling. For me. ...I don't really think I'm "mean" or "aggressive" at all. I mean, I'm a tickler, but I think I'm playful. Mix of dialogue, breather breaks and tickling across like half hour spans.
Back to what I was originally trying to say. I just feel and have felt for a while now like no matter how we try to frame the situation that it's something kind of mean to do. Like it's not really considerate of personal space, skews interaction, etc. So to me. ...part of it makes me feel mean for liking it to begin with. Especially when I think of when I started out trying to meet people. ...imagine how far I might've just gotten if I put tickling to the side?