Does a man watching f/m tickling make him gay?????

[SantaFeSwitch]

I'm gonna play the bad guy here and say that if you're a guy getting off to a man being tickled, it might entail some homosexuality. MIGHT. Bring on the flames, I'm ready for them!

If you're a guy getting off to a man having sex with a woman that means you might be gay too?

 

[Excess]

Not if what one is getting off on is the woman doing the tickling...

Well that's why I didn't mention the woman.

of course it might, What I disagree with is that it *does*

Well no it doesn't 'necessarily', because there are far too many factors. A guy can get off to M/M and not be gay for that matter.

 

[ViperGTS]

Oh christ, THIS discussion again.

YOU CANT DO ANYTHING THAT WILL SUDDENLY MAKE YOU GAY.

Having gay sex does not make you gay.
Watching gay porn does not make you gay.

BEING GAY MAKES YOU GAY.

If you don't already know this then you have some srs lrning to do.

 

[Excess]

So watching and getting aroused by two girls being tickled makes me a lesbian?

What if it's the fact that some folks can just focus on the act that's going on and not always regard the folks that are starring in it?

Some F/M scenes might be better then M/F, or M/M, or etc.

XD I knew I'd get to be the bad guy! Ok, I got an answer for this. No it doesn't make yo a lesbian, but it COULD. That was the point, that it could, but doesn't necessarily. Again, too many factors to judge on anything in any way like that.

If you're a guy getting off to a man having sex with a woman that means you might be gay too?

Of course not.

Oh christ, THIS discussion again.

YOU CANT DO ANYTHING THAT WILL SUDDENLY MAKE YOU GAY.

Having gay sex does not make you gay.
Watching gay porn does not make you gay.

BEING GAY MAKES YOU GAY.

If you don't already know this then you have some srs lrning to do.

I dunno, I felt a little gay for Stephen Colbert over time. XD

But I think the point isn't that it SUDDENLY MAKES YOU GAY, but rather that it makes you realize some latent homosexuality. But I could be wrong, I dunno.

 

[CrystalLight]

So then listening to ABBA COULD make me a Dancing Queen?

 

[SantaFeSwitch]

So then listening to ABBA COULD make me a Dancing Queen?

great, now I can't get that song out of my head...

 

[..Glamorous..]

XD I knew I'd get to be the bad guy! Ok, I got an answer for this. No it doesn't make yo a lesbian, but it COULD. That was the point, that it could, but doesn't necessarily. Again, too many factors to judge on anything in any way like that.

So wait.. I COULD be a lesbian because I like F/F the best. LAWL! I guess I should go break the news to my husband. I agree with Jo, some scenes are just better and more attention grabbing between different people. Just because it has the same sex in it doesn't mean your gay, or could be gay.. that's just silly to me.. But I for one believe people are gay from the start.. they don't turn.

 

[-Hari-]

Well no it doesn't 'necessarily', because there are far too many factors. A guy can get off to M/M and not be gay for that matter.

Yup, he can indeed if its the reactions hes enjoyng and not the appearance of the people involved.

people get off on cartoon characters being tickled, and I bet mostly its because theres tickling happening, not because they find the cartoon male, female, furry thing or otherwise actually attractive.

 

[..Glamorous..]

So then listening to ABBA COULD make me a Dancing Queen?

LMFAO!

 

[Wolf]

Perhaps...

So then listening to ABBA COULD make me a Dancing Queen?

But it will definitely make you FABULOUS!!!

(Maybe I have Priscilla, Queen of the Desert on DVD and maybe I don't )

 

[-Hari-]

So then listening to ABBA COULD make me a Dancing Queen?

It could babes, it really could, follow your dreams dammit!!

you SHALL be the dancing queen

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Why does it matter what tickling stuff you look at? When I first delved into the online world of tickling, the only site I found was a M/M site. It wasn't exactly what I was looking for, but I stuck with it because I just assumed I was a girl in a guys world. I was able to enjoy M/M stories and discussion regardless of my strong preference for M/F play. It didn't make me gay and it didn't change my sexual preference.

Who you watch get tickled and who you bone can be different.

 

[Excess]

Yup, he can indeed if its the reactions hes enjoyng and not the appearance of the people involved.

people get off on cartoon characters being tickled, and I bet mostly its because theres tickling happening, not because they find the cartoon male, female, furry thing or otherwise actually attractive.

Exactly. Thanks for being the only person that understands what I was getting at. People get way worked up about this topic.



Let's put it this way: Is it completely impossible for a gay man to get off to a man being tickled if it's by a woman?

 

[-Hari-]

Exactly. Thanks for being the only person that understands what I was getting at. People get way worked up about this topic.



Let's put it this way: Is it completely impossible for a gay man to get off to a man being tickled if it's by a woman?

well he could be aroused by a few thing there, Watching a man get tickled, whoever its by, and if hes a tickle fetishist, "oh look, tickling" *fap fap*



So back to the OP, the simple answer is again, "NO", and to make everyone happy "but it might" on the side

 

[Speedbump]

I'm not gonna lie. I'm straight, and I've become aroused by every kind of tickling at some point or another. To me, it depends on how it's filmed. I've become aroused by a few M/M clips on youtube, only because it was just the feet being tickled, and I could barely hear the laugh, and the tickler rarely ever talked, so it was just the act itself that did it for me.

F/M I'm always more focused on the girl's enjoyment in the clip than the guy being tickled.

M/F really depends on the girl and her reactions. I don't particularly enjoy watching most guys tickling girls and will always opt for an F/F over it. But if the girls really ticklish and cute, and the guy doesn't talk a lot, or is generally annoying, than I CAN really enjoy these.

F/F I am generally aroused by most of. Sometimes the clips don't have very good tickling in it, or the girls are faking REALLY bad, or don't have that good a laugh, but otherwise it gets me going pretty quickly.

 

[Sandrock74]

I'm straight, and while I prefer m/f or f/f stuff, I have, on occassion, enjoyed f/m stuff. I like the interactions between the people involved...the "chemistry" if you will. I fail to see how that would make me anything than what I am.

So then listening to ABBA COULD make me a Dancing Queen?

HAHA! I have that song in my computer...now I have to listen to it. Damn that song!

 

[CrystalLight]

I mean, I'm (mostly) straight and there's been many M/F scenes that would do nothing for me, but certain M/M or F/F scenes that were HOT.

 

[user 15]

does watching f/m make you gay NO!
does watching m/m make you gay YES!

 

[Excess]

well he could be aroused by a few thing there, Watching a man get tickled, whoever its by, and if hes a tickle fetishist, "oh look, tickling" *fap fap*



So back to the OP, the simple answer is again, "NO", and to make everyone happy "but it might" on the side

I'm just saying it's not as simple as a Yes or NO question. Variable, etc.

 

[rhiannon]

Everything could make you gay...even eating peanut butter....so BE CAREFUL!

 

[YoungMuscle]

I don't think it is gay to watch another dude being tickled regardless of who is doing the tickling. Usually I am imagining myself as the dude getting tickled thinking, how cool would that be, or oh crap that is horrible. LOL

 

[c7_assassin]

Personally I haven't ever watched a m/m clip, except for accidentally clicking on youtube videos and then swiftly leaving...

I'm not worried that it's going to "make" me gay, it's just not what I find arousing. So I don't watch.

I'm hesitant to label, but if you enjoy watching a man running his fingers over another man's body in a playful way...I dunno, seems a little gay to me. Maybe there's something about it I'm missing, since many of you have a different opinion...

As for women watching f/f, not the same thing. Female bodies are gorgeous, even straight women can appreciate that. Male bodies are gross.

Unless you're gay...

 

[rhiannon]

As for women watching f/f, not the same thing. Female bodies are gorgeous, even straight women can appreciate that. Male bodies are gross.

Does that mean only gay guys go to the gym? That would be HORRIBLE!

 

[-Hari-]

Does that mean only gay guys go to the gym? That would be HORRIBLE!

No, it means going to the gym makes you gay, the second you walk thru the door dontcha know

 

[rhiannon]

LOL....oh, be quiet!!