Sorry if this has been discussed before. I didn't want to search through 32,000 threads.
I'm probably one of the older members here so my question is more or less directed to you, but anyone can chime in.
My fantasies/desires/obsessions/etc have changed little by little as I've grown up/older. Many of the same triggers don't trigger anymore. It could have something to do with the flooding of media compared to when I started looking and foraging for materials. After all, who cares about our record collection when any song ever recorded is available pretty much for free?
How about you? Has your TK fantasy whittled down to a small circle of interest? Has it expanded? Were you a foot person and now your interest has moved upward? Have you been a "general practitioner" but now find yourself only satisfied by a certain body part or a certain type of tickling?
What about the object of your fantasy? Has that changed? Do you now only fantasize about blonds, brunettes, taller, smaller, younger, older, wild, or innocent?
Has your bondage interests waned or is it stronger than ever? Do you only fantasize about total restraint now when it wasn't important previously, or are you tired of stocks and fancy restraining devices?
Lastly, have these changes in your attitudes and interests alarm you or are you content? In other words, have you accepted these more focused desires or has it given you a cause for concern? (eg: "Why can I only get off now if I imagine my victim with a carrot in her mouth and humming Free Bird?")
I know my circle of interest has gotten much smaller. I'm not into heavy bondage and definitely turned off by stocks. I don't like seeing women in videos spread out on a bed because I feel it's kind of demeaning. I like seeing my 'Ler AND my 'Lee having fun, laughing together, her getting turned on by the tickling (but not in a fake porno way), seeing the 'Ler's teasing to be sadistic but in a fun way.
Hope this stimulates some lengthy responses.
Max
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I'm probably one of the older members here so my question is more or less directed to you, but anyone can chime in.
My fantasies/desires/obsessions/etc have changed little by little as I've grown up/older. Many of the same triggers don't trigger anymore. It could have something to do with the flooding of media compared to when I started looking and foraging for materials. After all, who cares about our record collection when any song ever recorded is available pretty much for free?
How about you? Has your TK fantasy whittled down to a small circle of interest? Has it expanded? Were you a foot person and now your interest has moved upward? Have you been a "general practitioner" but now find yourself only satisfied by a certain body part or a certain type of tickling?
What about the object of your fantasy? Has that changed? Do you now only fantasize about blonds, brunettes, taller, smaller, younger, older, wild, or innocent?
Has your bondage interests waned or is it stronger than ever? Do you only fantasize about total restraint now when it wasn't important previously, or are you tired of stocks and fancy restraining devices?
Lastly, have these changes in your attitudes and interests alarm you or are you content? In other words, have you accepted these more focused desires or has it given you a cause for concern? (eg: "Why can I only get off now if I imagine my victim with a carrot in her mouth and humming Free Bird?")
I know my circle of interest has gotten much smaller. I'm not into heavy bondage and definitely turned off by stocks. I don't like seeing women in videos spread out on a bed because I feel it's kind of demeaning. I like seeing my 'Ler AND my 'Lee having fun, laughing together, her getting turned on by the tickling (but not in a fake porno way), seeing the 'Ler's teasing to be sadistic but in a fun way.
Hope this stimulates some lengthy responses.
Max
Support the TMF with a dollar a month!