Some very good points have been raised here. Unfortunately people who describe themselves as having "fetishes" are stereotyped into that weirdo group. But also I think everyone has their own kind of kink. Me, I have just about every fetish under the sun, light s&m, tickling (obviously), furries, bondage, feet, WAM, roleplaying, quasi-transvestism, and I'm sure some I haven't discovered yet. As long as you don't let it control your life, there's nothing wrong with it or you. I just like to think of myself as being sexually creative and inventive so when I become intimate with a woman our sex life will never get boring. (Also, I hang out alot with homosexuals and actors and have been in shows like Cabaret, so I've sort of adopted that mindset of "the kinkier the better
" ) I must say though, fetishes in general (some more than others) ARE indeed weird. On clips4sale, there are videos about zit popping. Personally, I find this "eww" but I don't have a problem with people who get off on that, because as long as all people involved enjoy it and (in the slightly misquoted words of Frank Zappa) "as long as you don't kill anyone," then who cares? Take me for example, I AM into dungeons and chains and what-not, but that's not all there is to me. I'm a writer who hopes to submit a story to the Alfred Hitchcock Mystery magazine, I'm a poet, a Shakespeare enthusiast, I have a decent job at DQ, and I'm an active participant in the local theatre community. Ask any of my non-fetish friends and they'll tell you that while I'm very sexually minded, I'm also a hopeless romantic always trying to help my friends feel better in their times of trouble. So yeah, having a very unique fetish can weird, but it's something I think you should be proud of (within reason). ..... as long as you're not a pedo. LOL
