Maybe they're just rude hon and not worth your effort...
I've not changed my screen names over the years but I know a lot of people that have. Perhaps they're not ignoring you, but the account has long been disabled?
I know for me (and I'm guilty of the same) my IM screen name is different than "Steph." Being kind of a public personna, people usually come to me knowing in advance who I am, but if I don't know them or recognize the name, I know I can be hesitant to engage in conversation, not because I'm a jerk but because I'm usually talking with someone else or sometimes multiple somone else's (something I kind of have come to hate, I just find it too distracting.)
If I get a msg from "Mr X" and I don't know who that is, I may put them on buddy list to be polite, but I'm usually on IM in shadow anyway, I get nuked by waaaaay too many people otherwise, like most girls do. It gets overwhelming for me. Whereas, if Mr X shoots me a msg that says, "Hey, it's me Todd, I really liked your response to my question about Angela," I immediately have a point of reference, and am more likely to engage in a conversation...
Something I like that yahoo does that I don't think AOL does is it lets you send a msg to the person if they're offline, then they can respond to you when it's convenient for them, hopefully they don't send you 25 msgs a day, "Hello again? Are you there yet? It's ME, STILL waiting here
" (too much like stalking, IMHO...)
Anyway I rambled a bit (sorry) but hopefully gave some possible answers...
XOXO
jugner said:
The thing I'm wondering is why women don't explain why they don't wanna talk, they just ignore you with no explanation at all.