Yeah, ooops!! My fault patrons.....I'm so sorry.....I'm still learning. I tried to delete this post and put it in the correct forum but I don't know how to delete it...HELP!!
At first, my significant other didn't really know what to make of it. He didn't call me out or say I was a weirdo or anything like that, he just didn't understand why it was such a big deal to me.
Luckily though, I was able to draw him into the fold He enjoys it just as much as I now. So nope, aside from some early teasing, tickling has not ruined my relationships.
My previous girlfriends were interested at first, and frustrated by it later. It's lead me to think that I'd like my next girlfriend to have some kind of fetish, so that a) I know she'll empathize with having one, and b) so that I get a better first-person experience of what it's like to play opposite someone who has one.
There is really no point in telling friends or family. The conversation can be a stressful and awkward one and the person may treat you differently as a result, so why would you go through that with someone you don't have to? Family and friends aren't going to be the ones you experiment with or indulge with, significant others are.
That said, I've only told those I've dated and haven't had a problem yet.
Because my Mom and I are like best friends and we also talk about sex! So why wouldn't I tell her? She certainly doesn't think of me any less now than she did before.
Very insightful...thank you. I haven't gotten to the point of frustrating her....yet! After reading your reply I will be careful not to over indulge although she seems to enjoy the sensations! Here is some advice....date Pisces!! Every zodiac sign has an erogenous zone; for Pisces it's their feet!!