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I understand some strong personal feelings might come up with this kind of topic, but I would hope we could have intelligent debate about it without it causing a big ol' fight.
Do you think that a homosexual couple should have the right to have their marriage recognized as a legal union by the state they live in? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that this is already legal in Pennsylvania and in Hawaii. But I'm talking about having it legal in every state of the union, and here in Kansas it's most definitely not legal.
My belief...as you can probably guess, since I lean to the liberal side on pretty much every other controversial topic; Yes, I do believe they should have that right. Here are my reasons: 1. I think that even if someone personally believes that homosexuality is wrong and immoral, that belief should not translate into the laws of this country. If we truly are a free country here, then we should allow a homosexual couple equal rights as a straight couple.
2. No matter what anyone's personal beliefs on homosexuality may be; the fact is that people with this orientation still exist, will find one another, and will want to commit to each other in the same way a straight couple does. Often a homosexual couple will have a marriage ceremony to celebrate their union, but they are denied such things as shared insurance and government benefits given to married couples because their marriage is not recognized by the law.
3. These are my personal feelings, so take them however you will. One of my best friends in this world is a homosexual man, and I know that he wants to meet someone, fall in love, and settle down just like I do one day. But I think it's sad that one day, I will have the right to a legal union with my partner, but he may never have that right with his, unless he moves somewhere that allows it.
Also, my mom and I used to argue this topic with each other a lot, she is a conservative Christian and believes that the Bible says that homosexuality is immoral, and therefore a homosexual marriage is immoral. She used to tell me that a homosexual marriage "makes a mockery of marriage", because of marriage being defined as the legal union between a man and a woman. While I respect her beliefs, I disagree strongly, and I think that the definition of marriage has changed greatly over time. With all the divorce and re-marriage in this country, it seems like the vows aren't always respected, and in that sense you could say that marriage is already a mockery of itself. I don't think that homosexual people should be given "special rights", but I do believe that they should have EQUAL rights and should not be persecuted and discriminated against by others for their sexual orientation.
(edit) I understand we have many members outside the united states on this forum, and their opinions on homosexual marriage, here in the U.S. or in their own country, are completely welcome too. When I say 'the laws of this country' in my post, I'm talking about the country I live in, the United States, but I would be interested to hear what members from other countries have to say about this, and the laws in their particular country.
Do you think that a homosexual couple should have the right to have their marriage recognized as a legal union by the state they live in? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that this is already legal in Pennsylvania and in Hawaii. But I'm talking about having it legal in every state of the union, and here in Kansas it's most definitely not legal.
My belief...as you can probably guess, since I lean to the liberal side on pretty much every other controversial topic; Yes, I do believe they should have that right. Here are my reasons: 1. I think that even if someone personally believes that homosexuality is wrong and immoral, that belief should not translate into the laws of this country. If we truly are a free country here, then we should allow a homosexual couple equal rights as a straight couple.
2. No matter what anyone's personal beliefs on homosexuality may be; the fact is that people with this orientation still exist, will find one another, and will want to commit to each other in the same way a straight couple does. Often a homosexual couple will have a marriage ceremony to celebrate their union, but they are denied such things as shared insurance and government benefits given to married couples because their marriage is not recognized by the law.
3. These are my personal feelings, so take them however you will. One of my best friends in this world is a homosexual man, and I know that he wants to meet someone, fall in love, and settle down just like I do one day. But I think it's sad that one day, I will have the right to a legal union with my partner, but he may never have that right with his, unless he moves somewhere that allows it.
Also, my mom and I used to argue this topic with each other a lot, she is a conservative Christian and believes that the Bible says that homosexuality is immoral, and therefore a homosexual marriage is immoral. She used to tell me that a homosexual marriage "makes a mockery of marriage", because of marriage being defined as the legal union between a man and a woman. While I respect her beliefs, I disagree strongly, and I think that the definition of marriage has changed greatly over time. With all the divorce and re-marriage in this country, it seems like the vows aren't always respected, and in that sense you could say that marriage is already a mockery of itself. I don't think that homosexual people should be given "special rights", but I do believe that they should have EQUAL rights and should not be persecuted and discriminated against by others for their sexual orientation.
(edit) I understand we have many members outside the united states on this forum, and their opinions on homosexual marriage, here in the U.S. or in their own country, are completely welcome too. When I say 'the laws of this country' in my post, I'm talking about the country I live in, the United States, but I would be interested to hear what members from other countries have to say about this, and the laws in their particular country.
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