There is probably a rant coming, I hope I dont piss anyone off, I just wanna get this off my chest and the Tickling forum is the only place I know to do it.
Please dont take offense to this, I just want input from you, not a kick in the balls for what I'm about to say:
I, Rectangle, HATE the TMF.
*Pause* Full stop.
Lemme explain.
First off, I dont hate the people here, at all, by any stretch of the imagination.
You guys are awesome.
I dont post much, but I do talk to a few people here on the side, and those few (You know who you are) have been like, critical in helping me come to terms with my..fetish...
So it's not at ALL against the people here.
What I'm referring to when I say "Hate the TMF" is the whole fact that I've got to come HERE to be around people that get turned on by the same thing do.
I dont know if I like it.
Every time I sign on, I feel like I'm being defined by my sexuality, by my "Kink".
I've got to hide my laptop from my roomates when I sign on here so I wont feel like some kind of weirdo, which really pisses me off too.
You guys arent weirdos. I'm not a weirdo. Why do I have to hide?
I mean, it's tickling. It's friggin' innocent. Why am I ashamed like I am?
I've YET to meet a girl or be in a relationship where I told my GF "I like to be tickled" and her be like "Well screw you, pervert!"
Ever!
And I think I've told every girlfriend I've ever had!
So what's the big deal? Why am I so friggin' scared?
But this place..
Maybe it's because I've been lurking here since I was a teenager
(Just for reference, that "18 or older" thing at the front door does NOT stop teens with the fetish, there is at least one teenager reading this right now hehe"
..maybe its that fear I had back then of being "outed" that sizzles up everytime I get on here.
Maybe its the naked girls in the ads over in the corner that make me feel like I'm visiting a porn site.
I dont know, but everytime I sign on here, I feel like I'm doing something wrong.
And I genuinely WANT to be active here, I want to make friends and have people be like "Oh, thats Rectangle, he's a cool guy" like anywhere else.
But I dont know what's stopping me.
There's just something inside me that stops me from being at ease here.
Yet I come back and lurk and talk to people because it's the only damn place I can meet people who dont think that I'm weird, even if I already know that most people wouldnt think I'm weird to begin with!
Its driving me mad, and I dont even know what I'm upset about right now but I am and I wanna scream about it but I friggin' dont even know what to scream at!
I just dont want to be seen as "weird".
I dont want to feel like I'm hiding this chunk of my life.
Seeking out gatherings and munches trying to find people like me so I'll know deep down I'm not alone.
But then again, I WANT TO! I WANT to go to munches and gatherings and meet people, but not on the basis of not being alone but because it's something I enjoy!
Does that make any sense? I dunno..
I can maybe sum it up like this.
The word "Kink".
This is our "Kink"
That makes us "Kinky"
I DONT WANNA BE KINKY!
I WANNA BE NORMAL!
But I dont wanna change either!
I like me, and this is part of me, and GRRRR
Back when I first started coming here, lurking and hiding it from the world a a teenager, I wrote up a profile that was as different from myself as possible.
(Yes Mods, teenage Reck made a fake profile)
..I said I lived in California, I was a teacher, and I was female.
IMMEDIATELY after dropping my fake "female" profile onto the TMF..
..teenage Reck got BOMBARDED with messages from "That Guy"
You know "That Guy"
He's the one who posts little comments in totally inappropriate places saying things like "MORE FEET!" or sends girls comments like "WHERE YOU BE TICKLISH? CAN I SMELL YOUR ARMPIT?"
And it almost scarred me for life. I think it did scar me for life actually.
Because my first impression of this community was that it was a bunch of jackasses that were just looking for a reason to wank-off.
And that's not me. That's not the man I want to be.
Even as a TEEN that wasnt the guy I wanted to be.
So I went years before even trying to talk to anybody from around here.
I was scared of you guys. Even when I read you guys post on the forums, and you seemed normal, I was scared.
The TMF still brings that fear up inside of me, I cant help it.
I dont want to be that creepy guy wacking off in the corner.
*Note to "That Guy", you fucking sicken me, have some respect for people*
So yeah. I hate the TMF.
But I REALLY want to STOP hating the TMF.
I want to be here as a normal guy, talking to normal people, without any shame or fear that opening myself up to this side of me is going to turn me into creepy wank-monkey guy in the corner.
I just dont know how to go about that.
I'm sorry for my rant, I hope someone makes sense of it, I just kind of let feelings fly without any coherent structure to it, please forgive me if this breaks protocol or anything around here.
Thanks for reading.
Reck.
Please dont take offense to this, I just want input from you, not a kick in the balls for what I'm about to say:
I, Rectangle, HATE the TMF.
*Pause* Full stop.
Lemme explain.
First off, I dont hate the people here, at all, by any stretch of the imagination.
You guys are awesome.
I dont post much, but I do talk to a few people here on the side, and those few (You know who you are) have been like, critical in helping me come to terms with my..fetish...
So it's not at ALL against the people here.
What I'm referring to when I say "Hate the TMF" is the whole fact that I've got to come HERE to be around people that get turned on by the same thing do.
I dont know if I like it.
Every time I sign on, I feel like I'm being defined by my sexuality, by my "Kink".
I've got to hide my laptop from my roomates when I sign on here so I wont feel like some kind of weirdo, which really pisses me off too.
You guys arent weirdos. I'm not a weirdo. Why do I have to hide?
I mean, it's tickling. It's friggin' innocent. Why am I ashamed like I am?
I've YET to meet a girl or be in a relationship where I told my GF "I like to be tickled" and her be like "Well screw you, pervert!"
Ever!
And I think I've told every girlfriend I've ever had!
So what's the big deal? Why am I so friggin' scared?
But this place..
Maybe it's because I've been lurking here since I was a teenager
(Just for reference, that "18 or older" thing at the front door does NOT stop teens with the fetish, there is at least one teenager reading this right now hehe"
..maybe its that fear I had back then of being "outed" that sizzles up everytime I get on here.
Maybe its the naked girls in the ads over in the corner that make me feel like I'm visiting a porn site.
I dont know, but everytime I sign on here, I feel like I'm doing something wrong.
And I genuinely WANT to be active here, I want to make friends and have people be like "Oh, thats Rectangle, he's a cool guy" like anywhere else.
But I dont know what's stopping me.
There's just something inside me that stops me from being at ease here.
Yet I come back and lurk and talk to people because it's the only damn place I can meet people who dont think that I'm weird, even if I already know that most people wouldnt think I'm weird to begin with!
Its driving me mad, and I dont even know what I'm upset about right now but I am and I wanna scream about it but I friggin' dont even know what to scream at!
I just dont want to be seen as "weird".
I dont want to feel like I'm hiding this chunk of my life.
Seeking out gatherings and munches trying to find people like me so I'll know deep down I'm not alone.
But then again, I WANT TO! I WANT to go to munches and gatherings and meet people, but not on the basis of not being alone but because it's something I enjoy!
Does that make any sense? I dunno..
I can maybe sum it up like this.
The word "Kink".
This is our "Kink"
That makes us "Kinky"
I DONT WANNA BE KINKY!
I WANNA BE NORMAL!
But I dont wanna change either!
I like me, and this is part of me, and GRRRR
Back when I first started coming here, lurking and hiding it from the world a a teenager, I wrote up a profile that was as different from myself as possible.
(Yes Mods, teenage Reck made a fake profile)
..I said I lived in California, I was a teacher, and I was female.
IMMEDIATELY after dropping my fake "female" profile onto the TMF..
..teenage Reck got BOMBARDED with messages from "That Guy"
You know "That Guy"
He's the one who posts little comments in totally inappropriate places saying things like "MORE FEET!" or sends girls comments like "WHERE YOU BE TICKLISH? CAN I SMELL YOUR ARMPIT?"
And it almost scarred me for life. I think it did scar me for life actually.
Because my first impression of this community was that it was a bunch of jackasses that were just looking for a reason to wank-off.
And that's not me. That's not the man I want to be.
Even as a TEEN that wasnt the guy I wanted to be.
So I went years before even trying to talk to anybody from around here.
I was scared of you guys. Even when I read you guys post on the forums, and you seemed normal, I was scared.
The TMF still brings that fear up inside of me, I cant help it.
I dont want to be that creepy guy wacking off in the corner.
*Note to "That Guy", you fucking sicken me, have some respect for people*
So yeah. I hate the TMF.
But I REALLY want to STOP hating the TMF.
I want to be here as a normal guy, talking to normal people, without any shame or fear that opening myself up to this side of me is going to turn me into creepy wank-monkey guy in the corner.
I just dont know how to go about that.
I'm sorry for my rant, I hope someone makes sense of it, I just kind of let feelings fly without any coherent structure to it, please forgive me if this breaks protocol or anything around here.
Thanks for reading.
Reck.