I'm in a bad way right now, and I could use a little help. My elderly father was recently hospitalized with Bilateral Pneumonia, and since then, he's been placed on a ventilator, and has suffered an episode where his heart stopped for five minutes and then spontaneously restarted (his living will specifies no heroic measures should be taken to save his life in an instance like that). And now I'm in a sort of limbo. Some days there's good news and some days it's bad news. He improves a little, then worsens.
The emotional roller coaster ride is getting to me. I walk around feeling tired and like I'm in a fog. I can't concentrate, and at this point I'm just hoping for a change - whether for good or bad. Don't get me wrong - I love my father, and I want him to live for many more years. But sitting and waiting....and waiting....and waiting for something to happen is really friggin hard. It's like there's a little rain cloud following me around all the time.
Have any of you ever been through something like this? And if so, how did you handle it? Any advice would be welcome and appreciated.
-Nick
The emotional roller coaster ride is getting to me. I walk around feeling tired and like I'm in a fog. I can't concentrate, and at this point I'm just hoping for a change - whether for good or bad. Don't get me wrong - I love my father, and I want him to live for many more years. But sitting and waiting....and waiting....and waiting for something to happen is really friggin hard. It's like there's a little rain cloud following me around all the time.
Have any of you ever been through something like this? And if so, how did you handle it? Any advice would be welcome and appreciated.
-Nick