How I finally realized that I'm more LER than LEE

[piyr]

I could never define what I was. Not that there's a reason to. There's no real reason to have to apply a label to yourself to define what you are to yourself or others. HOWEVER, I still foolishly tried. I knew that I was both but I never knew for sure if I was more one than the other.

Finally I realized that when I see an attractive woman my thoughts are of tickling her first and any thoughts of her tickling me come later if at all. It seems silly that I didn't pick up on it before, but honestly I never gave it much thought.

Yep, so there you go. I've rationalized a label to satisfy who knows who.

 

[TKLVR18]

That's good to know about yourself, I suppose. Just bear in mind that if you're a switch, some days you're going to be more one way than the other for no reason other than you're having a 'so and so' day. I remember when I realized I was more than just a 'ler. It was hard for me but now I'm a proud switch

~K

 

[Mr_Subtle]

I still go back and forth between lee and ler. Maybe its an identity crisis for me. I dont know what i am!!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

i dont think of lee or ler as a label but a description of a person's preference of which to be a tickler or a ticklee. Maybe we should name switches Lee-lers.