Is New Jersey A Dead Area?

[Chaostar]

Can someone tell me why or if New Jersey has zero tickling? Seem like other states have stuff, but I’ve been searching on sites and google for New Jersey tickling gatherings and there’s none. Everyone in the personals section is from another state or country. Are any people on this site from New Jersey, feels like there isn’t.

Anyone ever feel like giving up or leaving tickling? I do right now, Video clips used to be satisfying, but that was when I believed I’d get to tickle someone or a GF one day, but now they just taunt me and show me people doing stuff I’d love to try, but i cant stop watching because i think i may be addicted.
This would be a lot easier if I was in a relationship but that wont happen.

I don’t have opportunities to travel out of state and I know California has everything tickling related if you wanted to find it, that’s why I was hoping NJ would have groups. It’s weird that it doesnt though.

Feels like I’m going crazy.
Am I alone here...

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I there are munches in PA and NYC plus Philly has the largest tickle gathering in the U.S. I believe, called NEST.
I have been to NEST for many years. There is a sub-fourm for it under eastern United States in the gathering section.

 

[Chaostar]

I there are munches in PA and NYC plus Philly has the largest tickle gathering in the U.S. I believe, called NEST.
I have been to NEST for many years. There is a sub-fourm for it under eastern United States in the gathering section.

Yea I know about those but there out of state.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

oh okay I didn't realize you couldn't go out of state at all I mean I used to live in Philly and if I remember the Metro was an option. It connected to NJ and NYC.

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[barefeetarebest]

Can someone tell me why or if New Jersey has zero tickling? Seem like other states have stuff, but I’ve been searching on sites and google for New Jersey tickling gatherings and there’s none. Everyone in the personals section is from another state or country. Are any people on this site from New Jersey, feels like there isn’t.

Anyone ever feel like giving up or leaving tickling? I do right now, Video clips used to be satisfying, but that was when I believed I’d get to tickle someone or a GF one day, but now they just taunt me and show me people doing stuff I’d love to try, but i cant stop watching because i think i may be addicted.
This would be a lot easier if I was in a relationship but that wont happen.

I don’t have opportunities to travel out of state and I know California has everything tickling related if you wanted to find it, that’s why I was hoping NJ would have groups. It’s weird that it doesnt though.

Feels like I’m going crazy.
Am I alone here...

From NJ here... down by AC. From what I have learned over the years is there is actually a concentration of tickling fetishists and enthusiasts in this state, but none of which wants to engage in chatting, role playing, real life meet ups or real time play... No I'm not thinking of leaving tickling but I'm thinking of leaving NJ. Not a major reason but a contributing factor. It's frustrating and I'm burnt.

 

[magic fingers]

Can someone tell me why or if New Jersey has zero tickling? Seem like other states have stuff, but I’ve been searching on sites and google for New Jersey tickling gatherings and there’s none. Everyone in the personals section is from another state or country. Are any people on this site from New Jersey, feels like there isn’t.

Anyone ever feel like giving up or leaving tickling? I do right now, Video clips used to be satisfying, but that was when I believed I’d get to tickle someone or a GF one day, but now they just taunt me and show me people doing stuff I’d love to try, but i cant stop watching because i think i may be addicted.
This would be a lot easier if I was in a relationship but that wont happen.

I don’t have opportunities to travel out of state and I know California has everything tickling related if you wanted to find it, that’s why I was hoping NJ would have groups. It’s weird that it doesnt though.

Feels like I’m going crazy.
Am I alone here...

I hear this question from people in the northeast all the time, and the answer is NO!!! NJ is probably one of the best parts of the country for tickling. You don't know how lucky you are. You're about 1-2 hours away from 3-4 weekly foot fetish parties in Philly and NYC(in fact as I'm typing this, there's a foot fetish party happening right now, Friday night in Philadelphia). NEST is in Philly every year, and NYC is a goldmine for S&M dungeons, and escorts who specialize in foot worship and tickling. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and check these places out. They're practically in your backyard. You're a helluva lot better off than TMFers stuck in the perpetually vanilla Midwest, or Bible Belt. Those ticklefiles would probably kill to live in NJ. You don't have to travel to California but why can't you drive a couple hours to Philly, or NYC? Do you have a car? Are you employed? If the answer to both those questions is no, then those should be your priorities, not finding a tickle partner.

 

[Chaostar]

I hear this question from people in the northeast all the time, and the answer is NO!!! NJ is probably one of the best parts of the country for tickling. You don't know how lucky you are. You're about 1-2 hours away from 3-4 weekly foot fetish parties in Philly and NYC(in fact as I'm typing this, there's a foot fetish party happening right now, Friday night in Philadelphia). NEST is in Philly every year, and NYC is a goldmine for S&M dungeons, and escorts who specialize in foot worship and tickling. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and check these places out. They're practically in your backyard. You're a helluva lot better off than TMFers stuck in the perpetually vanilla Midwest, or Bible Belt. Those ticklefiles would probably kill to live in NJ. You don't have to travel to California but why can't you drive a couple hours to Philly, or NYC? Do you have a car? Are you employed? If the answer to both those questions is no, then those should be your priorities, not finding a tickle partner.

Yes I have a Job, and as for driving I’m sure you wont understand at all so I’ll just move on from that. And I’m fully aware of New York fetishism and Philly. But my post mentioned THIS state.

 

[xStrangesoundZx]

FYI: Not many things going on in terms of Tickling only in NYC. Aside from a few gatherings. Only NOW that there are few folks and producers making more tickle only events by people and Models are more tickle oriented. NYC still is a flat bed for now.

 

[IrvingKrebb]

Chaostar, are you a kid? It kinda sounds like you're a kid, if I'm wrong, I'm wrong, but...

 

[oldgeezer]

OK you asked about NJ and you got plenty of feedback for nearby Philly and NY. However, like you said not NJ.
On the other hand Phillly and NY are a lot closer to NJ than CA. And Ca is a big state. You should be able to find plenty of action in the LA area and San Francisco Area but not necessarily anywhere else. They are almost 400 miles apart so depending on where you go to CA you could easily be 100 or 200 miles away from abundant action, which is further than NJ to NY or Philly.

 

[oldgeezer]

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[duderino84]

I live in Central NJ but happen to travel to south NJ (think AC) fairly often because I have family down there. I'll break my impression of what tickling life here is like.

If you're looking for events.... you're going to end up looking outside the state. There's really nothing going on. Fetlife may have general fetish gatherings, but a lot of the crowd (my impression, remember) is older and permanently established in NJ.

If you're after People.... this is a wide spectrum of "no, get away!" To "this doesn't come around often". You can find people that are open to tickling but honestly there's not much to find (unless you feel like spending more time driving up and down the state vs talking to people) and really, NJ is a tight knit bedroom community where if it weren't for the job market, people would vacate as soon as possible.

NJ from my perspective of being here 30+ years is just a place people travel to in order to see the shores or they're interested in leaving. Our genius governor doesn't make/ care to make the state livable to people who aren't interested in becoming "California of the East Coast". When I was in school, a lot of my peers said "fuck this state" and left. Now a lot of people are moving to the Carolinas or Philly.

Hope this helped, sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

 

[duderino84]

Chaostar, are you a kid? It kinda sounds like you're a kid, if I'm wrong, I'm wrong, but...

Guy's 31 according to his profile. I get where he's coming from; unless he wants to spend money or go on a wild goose chase, "going into the city" (this coming from a musician, mind you) is a fruitless endeavor unless you know exactly what you're looking for where you're looking for it in.

 

[chicago]

Sorry there are no gatherings popping up on your front lawn. Hop a bus.

 

[magic fingers]

Guy's 31 according to his profile. I get where he's coming from; unless he wants to spend money or go on a wild goose chase, "going into the city" (this coming from a musician, mind you) is a fruitless endeavor unless you know exactly what you're looking for where you're looking for it in.

Sorry but if you want a tickle partner, and you don't have an SO, you'll have to go to a fetish party, a fetish friendly escort, or a BDSM dungeon, and probably head to NYC, or Philly. And any of those options will cost at least a few hundred bills. Seems like some people(not only referring to the OP, but other people w/similar posts) are just sitting on their couches in their living room, waiting for a hot girl to show up at their front door w/feathers and handcuffs. You have to make an effort if you want some tickling action.

 

[duderino84]

Sorry but if you want a tickle partner, and you don't have an SO, you'll have to go to a fetish party, a fetish friendly escort, or a BDSM dungeon, and probably head to NYC, or Philly. And any of those options will cost at least a few hundred bills. Seems like some people(not only referring to the OP, but other people w/similar posts) are just sitting on their couches in their living room, waiting for a hot girl to show up at their front door w/feathers and handcuffs. You have to make an effort if you want some tickling action.

Or you know, find those rare "regular humans". Unprecedented idea, I know.

 

[magic fingers]

Or you know, find those rare "regular humans". Unprecedented idea, I know.

I did qualify it by saying, if you don't have an SO.

 

[duderino84]

I did qualify it by saying, if you don't have an SO.

I don't even need an SO tho. Hell, I used to take girls to flicks and get tickling in at the empty local Arby's. You don't need to go out and officially session or make anything official..... You could Craigslist someone who shares in wanting to meet people. It's about attitude, if anything, but I'd be lying if I said that people were exceptionally sociable in NJ.

 

[magic fingers]

I don't even need an SO tho. Hell, I used to take girls to flicks and get tickling in at the empty local Arby's. You don't need to go out and officially session or make anything official..... You could Craigslist someone who shares in wanting to meet people. It's about attitude, if anything, but I'd be lying if I said that people were exceptionally sociable in NJ.

You're right, I'd forgotten about Craigslist, probably because I never had much luck w/it. As far as tickling girls on dates, or in social situations that works too, assuming she's a) ticklish and b) is OK w/being tickled. A lot of women hate being tickled, even by someone they feel comfortable with.

 

[duderino84]

You're right, I'd forgotten about Craigslist, probably because I never had much luck w/it. As far as tickling girls on dates, or in social situations that works too, assuming she's a) ticklish and b) is OK w/being tickled. A lot of women hate being tickled, even by someone they feel comfortable with.

CL can be a hit/miss option but it gets you some email to read. I usually put things out there casually to give someone an idea of my idea of a good time lol. Liking/not liking tickling to me is about presentation. As Far as girls being into tickling, a fair amount have specified that since I like it they work with it. Being the "only guy that's tickled" is a title in itself, haha. Play up being different.

 

[oldgeezer]

Seems like some people(not only referring to the OP, but other people w/similar posts) are just sitting on their couches in their living room, waiting for a hot girl to show up at their front door w/feathers and handcuffs.

Are you suggesting sitting at home on your couch is not a good strategy?
What about if you have a phone. see attached

 

[duderino84]

Exactly man. That's what they do.

 

[magic fingers]

Oh yes, the good old 900#'s. I miss the 90's.

 

[playjoe]

Try a dating site like Plenty of fish and put in your profile massages .. do a key word search for massage , ticklish , touching etc

worked great for me !!

 

[Hot_Flicker]

Sorry... I can't respond to this post. Because i don't know the exact answer. But i want to know answer from here.