tickledgirls
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It's sad that we live in a culture where this is even a question worth asking. He's a kid being playful. If the person receiving the tickling is fine with it, it SHOULD be a non-issue. The pathetic fact that rampant pedo-fear has transformed our society into a place where innocent acts like tickling are causes for litigation is downright depressing.
I hope that, if it truly makes you feel self-conscious, he stops. If you aren't truly uncomfortable with it, then I hope he continues and you do subtly encourage him to express himself in whatever way he feels is appropriate. There are some things that kids obviously shouldn't do and should be discouraged from even considering, but tickling (and innocent touches in general) is not one of them. If it starts happening to teachers on a wider scale, maybe the culture will wise-up to it's harmful paranoia.
This! My cub-scouts tend to tickle me a fair bit if they can get the chance, they're a fairly playful bunch. The parents don't mind, they encourage me to get them back if their watchful eyes are there too occasionally. But I don't understand why it has to be such a problem. Touch is one of the five senses, and society has basically dictated that we cut of one of these senses....